Transforming Infertility Narratives alongside Dr. Naomi Whittaker

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Joining me at the table is, Dr. Naomi Whittaker, a visionary in restorative reproductive medicine, to explore the fertile yet challenging terrain of endometriosis and its impact on fertility. Dr. Whittaker’s innovative approach marries cutting-edge research with minimally invasive surgery and bioidentical hormones, charting a course for those navigating infertility that may circumvent the need for traditional IVF treatments. Our enlightening conversation sheds light on the often overlooked symptoms of endometriosis, revealing how a deeper understanding could pave the way to improved reproductive health.

As we traverse the complexities of conditions like adenomyosis and endometriosis, we unravel the critical implications these have on fertility and the profound influence a surgeon’s skill can have on patient outcomes. Dr. Whittaker highlights the path to patient autonomy, emphasizing the value of thorough preparations for surgery, including the need to address uterine infections and inflammation. It’s a compassionate reminder of the evolving nature of these conditions and the necessity for patient-centered care, striking a chord with anyone yearning for a more comprehensive understanding of the intricate dance between surgical intervention and nature’s own fertility processes.

In our final chapters, we delve into the often-misunderstood world of hormones and their pivotal role in fertility, as well as the emotional odyssey that accompanies infertility. Dr. Whittaker’s insights into the potential of bioidentical hormones to alleviate not just physical but also emotional suffering, offer a beacon of hope. We confront the silent struggles and the imperative of emotional support, encapsulating the essence of a journey marked by resilience and the search for meaning beyond biological ties. So pour yourself a comforting beverage and join us for a heartfelt episode that promises to arm you with knowledge and fill you with hope.

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Navigating Endometriosis and Fertility Challenges

Speaker 1
0:03

Welcome

to

EndoBattery
,

where

I

share

about

my

endometriosis

and

adenomyosis

story

and

continue

learning

along

the

way
.

This

podcast

is

not

a

substitute

for

professional

medical

advice

or

diagnosis
,

but

a

place

to

equip

you

with

information

and

a

sense

of

community
,

ensuring

you

never

have

to

face

this

journey

alone
.

Join

me

as

I

navigate

the

ups

and

downs

and

share

stories

of

strength
,

resilience

and

hope
.

While

navigating

the

world

of

endometriosis

and

adenomyosis
,

from

personal

experience

to

expert

insights
,

I'm

your

host
,

alana
,

and

this

is

EndoBattery

charging

our

lives

when

endometriosis

drains

us
.

Welcome

back

to

EndoBattery
,

grab

your

cup

of

coffee

or

your

cup

of

tea

and

join

me

at

the

table
.

Speaker 1
0:47

I'm

joined

at

the

table

today

by

Dr

Naomi

Whitaker
,

who

is

the

founder

of

RRM

Academy

and

is

an

OBGYN

fertility

surgeon

focused

on

women's

restorative

reproductive

medicine
,

compassionate

health

care

and

education
.

Dr

Whitaker

is

a

board-certified

OBGYN

and

a

fellowship-trained

surgeon

who

specializes

in

the

Creighton

Model

Fertility

Care

System

and

Napro

technology
,

which

works

cooperatively

with

women's

body

to

treat

the

underlying

cause

of

gynecologic

issues

and

infertility
,

such

as

endometriosis

and

PCOS
.

Dr

Whitaker

helps

women

improve

their

gynecologic

health

and

avoid

or

achieve

pregnancy

in

accordance

with

their

natural

fertility
,

using

the

latest

research
,

medicine

and

surgery
.

Please

help

me

in

welcoming

Dr

Naomi

Whitaker
.

Thank

you
,

dr

Whitaker
,

for

joining

us

today

and

taking

your

time

out

of

your

busy

schedule

to

join

me

today
.

Speaker 2
1:40

Thank

you

so

much

for

having

me
.

Speaker 1
1:42

Yes
,

you're

welcome
.

I

do

want

to

start

off

this

episode

by

saying

that

what

we're

going

to

talk

about

today

can

be

triggering

for

a

lot

of

people
.

This

is

not

an

easy

topic

to

talk

about
,

and

especially

if

you

are

in

the

trenches

of

walking

through

fertility

issues

or

infertility

issues
,

or

if

you've

had

your

fertility

stripped

from

you

in

the

past

and

are

unable

to

have

kids
.

So

this

may

be

triggering

to

you
,

and

I

just

want

to

say

that

I

hear

you

and

I

see

you

and

I

want

you

to

know

that

you

are

not
,

in

any

way
,

shape

or

form
,

looked

over
,

and

this

can

be

hard
.

But

this

can

be

triggering

for

some

and

I

just

want

to

say

that
.

But

I

do

think

it's

important

that

we

do

talk

about

it
,

because

a

lot

of

people

do

struggle

in

this

area

specifically
.

So

thank

you

for

being

the

person

to

talk

about

this

in

such

a

great

and

delicate

way
.

Speaker 2
2:34

Yeah
,

it's

such

an

important

topic

and

I'm

so

glad

that

you're

bringing

this

information

out

there
.

Speaker 1
2:39

Yeah
,

can

you

explain

to

us

what

it

is

that

you

do
,

as

far

as

what

the

difference

is

between

what

you

do

and

what

a

typical

GYN

would

do

or

typical

specialty

in

fertility

would

do
?

Can

you

kind

of

give

us

a

background

of

what

it

is

that

you

specialize

in
?

Speaker 2
2:58

Sure
,

so

it's

its

own

type

of

approach
.

Where

it's

not

quite
,

it

dabbles

in

minimally

invasive

gynecologic

surgery
.

It's

somewherebles

in

minimally

invasive

gynecologic

surgery
.

It's

somewhere

in

between

minimally

invasive

gynecologic

surgery

and

REI

Okay
,

a

combination

of

both

of

those
.

So
,

but

I

don't

do

IVF
.

I

actually

use

surgery

to

treat

underlying

women's

health

issues
,

for

example
.

Also

I

use

a

bioidentical

hormones

in

cycle

charting

and

I

combine

all

of

those

together

to

help

boost

natural

fertility
.

Timing

intercourse

instead

of

IUI
,

big

endosurgeries
,

tubal

corrective

surgeries

instead

of

IVF

that's

kind

of

my

version
.

So

women

come

to

me

who

either

failed

IVF
,

iui

or

don't

want

to

do

that

approach
,

or

they're

coming

to

me

before

they're

actively

trying

to

conceive

and

they

see

issues
.

Either

they

were

cycle

charting

and

they

saw

issues
,

or

they're

very

knowledgeable
,

either

from

a

family

member

or

friend

that

told

them

something

isn't

right
.

And

so

they're

coming

to

me

younger

and

hopes

that

maybe

one

day

they

can

preserve

their

fertility
,

maybe

even

enhance

their

fertility
,

so

that

they

can

be

ready

when

the

time

is

right

to

try

to

conceive
.

Speaker 1
4:13

Do

you

have

patients

that

walk

into

your

door

that

don't

know

that

they

have

maybe

an

underlying

condition

or

know

what

the

condition

is
,

but

they

just

know

that

they're

struggling

with

fertility

and

they

maybe

aren't

as

comfortable

with

IVF

or

they've

had

a

reaction

to

IVF

and

they're

coming

to

you

and

they're

like

what

is

going

on

with

me
?

How

often

do

you

see

that

in

your

clinic
?

Speaker 2
4:34

I

would

say

most

women

don't

know

it's

endometriosis
,

right
?

Most

women

don't

say

this

is

absolutely

endometriosis
,

where

women

are

told

things

are

normal

throughout

their

whole

life
,

either

by

their

mother

or

their

teachers

or

their

physician
,

and

so

they

come
,

they

say

something's

wrong
.

Clearly

I'm

not

getting

pregnant

and

I

want

an

answer
.

Speaker 2
4:54

Right

and

you

and

I

probably

know

quite

quickly

that

endometriosis

is

very

high

on

the

likelihood
,

even

if

only

infertility

is

the

problem
.

But

usually

when

you

dig

deeper

and

I

started

to

do

this

endometriosis

symptom

survey

to

pretty

much

any

woman

that

walks

in

with

fertility

issues
,

and

the

main

thing

that

I've

found

so

far

I've

only

been

doing

it

for

a

few

months

is

that

women

under

report

their

symptoms
.

They

have

normalized

it

to

themselves

for

so

long

that

they

kind

of

lived

with

it
,

they

put

up

with

it

or

they

work

their

life

around

it
.

And

then
,

unfortunately
,

many

of

these

women

I

mean
,

I

definitely

have

a

subset

of

women

that

are

coming

to

me

mainly

for

pain
,

but

there's

a

big

subset

that

put

up

with

so

much

pain

and

suffering

and

don't

pursue

aggressive

options

until

they're

trying

to

conceive

and

that's

the

one

final

thing

to

push

them

over

that

line

to

actually

seek

treatment
.

Speaker 1
5:54

Yeah
,

talking

about

this

survey
,

I

saw

that

you

had

recently

just

posted

something

on

your

Instagram

account

about

this

survey
.

Can

you

tell

us

a

little

bit

about

what

this

survey

entails
,

what

it

is

aimed

to

do
,

so

that

we

can

get

a

better

picture

of

maybe

what

we

can

be

looking

at

or

what

people

can

be

looking

at

when

they're

thinking

about

this

in

the

sense

of

fertility

and

endometriosis
?

Speaker 2
6:16

Yeah
.

So

I

put

together

a

survey

that

is

just

my

brain

on

paper
.

When

someone

comes

to

me

for

a

surgical

consult
,

either

they're

coming

to

me

for

pain

or

infertility

or

both
,

and

then

I

ask

them

all

these

questions

and

when

they

say

these

symptoms
,

these

are

the

ones

that

really

stand

out

in

my

mind

as

specific

to

endometriosis
.

Obviously
,

it's

a

whole

constellation

of

symptoms

and

you

have

to

take

into

consideration

the

big

picture
.

Some

symptoms

overlap

with

other

issues

that

could

be

not

related

to

endometriosis
.

But

I

thought
,

well
,

if

I

put

my

brain

on

paper
,

more

people

will

have

access

to

what

it's

like

to

be

in

the

mind

of

a

surgeon
.

Now
,

obviously
,

it's

not

a

way

to

diagnose

it
,

it's

just

a

suspicion

score
.

And

so

people

ask

me

all

the

time

what

does

the

score

mean
?

Well
,

I

can't

tell

you

much

about

it
,

except

when

the

score

is

very

high
,

like

especially

30

or

more
.

I

think

that

makes

it

very

likely

for

endometriosis

to

be

there
.

But

if

the

score

is

low
,

like

even

a

score

of

seven

or

11
,

I've

found

people

report

stage

four

endometriosis

even
.

And

of

course
,

symptom

score

is

not

correlated

to

staging
,

right
?

That's

not

surprising
,

right
?

And

this

is

all

preliminary

data
.

Speaker 2
7:38

I

would

love

to

research

it
.

It's

not

research
,

but

I

think

the

lower

symptoms

score

doesn't

rule

it

out
,

but

it's
.

It

is

something

to

bring

up

like

okay
,

well
,

you

know

which

symptoms

to

focus

on

when

you

go

to

a

provider
,

see

if
,

even

if

you

are

screening

a

surgeon
,

do

they

even

take

these

symptoms

seriously
,

you

know
.

So

that's

something

to

consider

as

well
.

So

I

felt

like

it

was

a

way

to

bring

access

to

people

who

may

not

be

able

to

see

a

surgeon
,

like

myself
,

I

only

see

patients

in

Pennsylvania

and

Virginia
,

so

I

know

access

is

a

huge

problem

and

for

me
,

I

have

endometriosis
.

I

didn't

realize

these

are

symptoms

until

fellowship
,

and

so

even

me

in

the

field

of

OBGYN
,

I

didn't

even

realize

these

symptoms

are

highly

subjective

of

endometriosis
.

Speaker 1
8:30

Which

I

mean

I

think

that's

true

with

a

lot

of

us
,

right
,

we

don't

put

our

symptoms

together

and

even

after

my

diagnosis

and

after

my

surgeries
,

there

were

symptoms

that

I

had

that

I

didn't

put

together

with

my

endometriosis

until

after
,

and

it

was

more

because

I

was

learning

about

these

symptoms

and

how

it

correlated

with

the

endometriosis
.

Speaker 1
8:49

For

instance
,

I

didn't

really

realize

my

UTIs

that

weren't

really

UTIs

were

probably

endometriosis
,

right
?

So

there's

all

these

little

tidbits

of

information

our

body

gives

us

that

we

aren't

necessarily

putting

our

pieces

together
,

and

I

would

even

say

this

is

post-operatively

symptoms

and

I'm

like
,

okay
,

could

this

have

been

because

of

endometriosis

or

is

this

in

correlation

to

because

I've

had

it

for

so

many

years
?

And

so

I

think

that's

true

with

a

lot

of

us

that

struggle

with

endometriosis
.

Are

you

able

to

speak

on

the

success

rate

for

those

patients

that

maybe

have

adenomyosis
,

because

this

is

a

big

one

for

us

in

the

endometriosis

community
,

as

far

as

a

lot

of

us

that

are

struggling

with

fertility

not

only

have

endometriosis

but

have

adenomyosis

as

well
.

Is

that

something

that

you

kind

of

deal

with

on

a

daily

basis

as

part

of

helping

those

achieve

success

in

fertility
?

Speaker 2
9:46

Absolutely

so

I

had

to

really

do

my

own

research

on

adenomyosis

because

there's

really

not

good

information

out

there
.

So

there's

technically

two

different

types

of

adenomyosis

there's

diffuse

and

there's

focal
.

So

diffuse

is

more

common

in

women

who

have

had

children

and

does

not

cause

infertility

but

can

cause

the

symptoms

like

fullness
,

heavy

bleeding
.

But

the

good

thing

is

that

shouldn't

really

affect

fertility
.

Endometriosis and Adenomyosis

Speaker 2
10:15

It's

very

often

visualized

on

ultrasound
.

In

an

article

that

I

read

analyzing

many
,

many

studies

and

summarizing

the

findings
,

it

compared

it

to

the

boy

who

cried

wolf
.

So

adenomyosis

is

over

called

on

ultrasound

because

obviously

we

know

endometriosis

is

missed

more

often

than

not

by

ultrasound

and

MRI
.

But

they

might

see

some

junctional

changes

or

whatever

the

ultrasound

findings

are

in

a

large

uterus
.

So

oh
,

it

must

be

that

right
.

Just

because

you

find

it

doesn't

mean

it's

clinically

significant
.

And

now

that

our

ultrasound

technologies

is

more

clear

than

it

used

to

be
,

we're

finding

it

more
.

And

now

we're

over

calling

it
.

Speaker 2
10:54

Based

on

what

I've

been

able

to

find
,

I

don't

see

other

signs

of

issues
.

If

it's

just

that
,

for

example

and

I

don't

consider

that

in

my

other

than

management

of

symptoms
,

I

don't

consider

that

as

a

barrier

to

conceiving
.

Now

it's

very

different
.

Someone

messaged

me

today

they

have

a

seven

centimeter

adenomyoma
.

Now

that's

very

different
.

That's

evidence

of

focal

adenomyosis
,

so

a

big

nodule

or

area

of

endometriosis

growing

into

the

muscle

of

the

uterus
,

and

so

those

do

cause

infertility
.

But

the

good

thing

is

those

are

resectable
.

You

just

treat

it

very

similarly

to

endometriosis
.

Now

it's

definitely

trickier

surgically
.

Speaker 1
11:40

But

and

from

my

understanding

and

maybe

I'm

wrong

on

this

but

doing

those

does

increase

risk
,

sometimes

with

fertility
,

depending

on

who

you

see
.

Like

you

wouldn't

want

to

see
,

just

anyone

to

see
,

no

matter

what
.

Speaker 2
11:53

Right

Period
.

If

you

are

interested

in

fertility

and

I

think

that's

something

I

really

want

to

bring

out

today

into

light

is

that

who

your

surgeon

is

matters

more

than

anything
.

Right
,

because
?

Because

not

only

finding

it

all
,

but

tissue

handling

being

very

delicate

with

tissue

I

see

people

on

social

media

even

just

grabbing

the

fallopian

tubes
.

You

don't

want

to

do

that

with

these

very

strong

instruments
.

Obviously

you

don't

want

to

take

out

fallopian

tubes

without

patient

consent
,

which

obviously

happens

a

lot
.

I'm

sure

you've

gotten

those

messages
,

like

I

have
.

I

went

under

anesthesia
.

I

woke

up

without

a

fallopian

tube
.

I've

seen

it

on

patients

who

go

to

surgeons
.

They

go

there

for

fertility
.

The

tube

is

taken

out

because

they

thought

it

was

endometriosis
.

Pathology

was

negative

for

endometriosis

on

the

tube
.

They

took

out

the

whole

tube
.

So

surgeon

choice

matters

for

someone

who's

fertility

friendly
,

who

really

respects

that
,

and

so

it's
.

There's

a

lot

to

it
.

We

could

definitely

go

into

it

more
.

That's

touching

the

surface

of

it
.

But

number

one

respecting

autonomy
.

Respecting

that
.

You

know

I

have

patients

all

the

time
.

Speaker 2
12:56

Are

you

going

to

take

out

my

tube
?

Are

you

going

to

take

out

my

ovary
?

I

mean
,

you

know
,

and

I

explain

how

often

I

do

that
,

which

is

almost

never

unless

I

think

it

looks

like

there's

a

cancer

how

often

I

do

that

which

is

almost

never

unless

I

think

it

looks

like

there's

a

cancer
,

I

pretty

much

try

to

save

every

fallopian

tube

or

ovary
.

After

you

know
,

informed

discussion

with

a

patient
.

Of

course
,

I'm

sure

there

are

exceptions

in

women

who

aren't

trying

to
.

Speaker 1
13:14

I'm

talking

about

trying

to

conceive

population
,

yeah
,

If

someone

comes

into

your

office

and

they've

already

had

excision

surgery

but

they

are

still

struggling

with

fertility

or

even

sometimes

probably

pain
,

what

are

some

approaches

that

you

take

to

help

them

achieve

their

ultimate

goal

of

either

fertility

or

pain

relief
?

Speaker 2
13:35

Yeah
.

So

of

course

I

look

back

at

their

operative

reports

to

see

what

was

done

and

I

go

over

with

them

concerns

from

what

was

seen
,

including
,

you

know
,

the

potential

or

of

adhesions
,

or

if

they

did

appropriate

adhesion

prevention
.

If

they

check

the

tubes

with

chromoprotubation

they

may

have

missed

a

partial

occlusion

of

the

fallopian

tube
,

which

is

pretty

common

with

endometriosis
,

and

so

for

that

I

do

a

selective

hysterosalpingogram

which

is

more

accurate

than

a

regular

hysterosalpingogram
.

It's

where

the

x-ray

is

put

above

the

body

and

I

have

an

actual

cania

that

goes

into

the

fallopian

tube

and

I

have

a

pressure

gauge

and

it

measures

if

there's

a

partial

occlusion
.

So

I

don't

want

to

just

see

fillage

of

dye
,

I

also

want

to

see

that

the

pressure

is

very

low

and

so

that

that

indicates

the

tube

is

wide

open
.

And

so

I

check

each

tube

individually

and

then

if

there's

a

partial

or

complete

occlusion
,

I

have

a

guide

wire

that

can

run

down

the

tube
,

kind

of

like

snaking

a

sink

to

open

it

up
.

I

just

see

tubal

occlusion

with

endometriosis

period

Okay
,

more

like

or

with

infertility

period
.

Speaker 2
14:49

You

know

I'm

not

sure

what

the

risk

factors

are

If

it's

congenital
,

you

know

hereditary

someone's

born

with

it
.

Speaker 2
14:56

If

there's

endometriosis

in

the

tube
,

if

there's

debris

in

the

tube

or

inflammation

related

to

endometriosis

or

if

it's

just

infertility

as

a

symptom
.

Speaker 2
15:06

It's

hard

to

say

but

I

do

screen

almost

all

women

that

come

to

me

who

are

undergoing

surgery
.

I

offer

them

that

because

if

they

haven't

tried

to

conceive

it's

going

to

be

silent

and

then

they're

at

increased

risk
,

in

my

opinion
,

if

they

likely

have

endometriosis
.

In

my

opinion
,

if

they

likely

have

endometriosis
,

I

do

think

many

times

it

is

probably

congenital

and

treatable

and

it

goes

away

after

that

procedure
.

But

I

like

to

offer

it

to

most

women

undergoing

surgery
,

even

if

they're

not

actively

trying

to

conceive
,

because

I've

had

women

come

to

me

with

endometriosis
.

They

got

excision
,

they

got

a

lot

better

and

then

they

come

back

to

me

with

infertility

because

their

kids

were

occluded

and

if

we

had

just

checked

it

when

they

were

focused

on

the

pain

but

they

knew

they

wanted

children

later
,

I

regretted

not

offering

it

earlier
.

I

explained

hey
,

if

you

haven't

been

trying
,

you

may

not

want

to

do

this

procedure
,

but

I

like

to

just

offer

it

if

they're

going

under

general

anyway
.

Speaker 1
16:04

Right
.

Speaker 2
16:05

Because

it's

pretty

quick
,

it's

very

quick
.

Speaker 1
16:08

Well
,

and

it

sounds

like

it's

a

more

proactive

approach

as

opposed

to

a

reactive

approach
,

which

we

all

know

that

when

you're

reactive
,

that's

when

things

can

get

a

little

hairy

with

outcomes
,

and

so

sometimes

it's

better

to

be

proactive

when

it

comes

to

things

like

this
,

specifically

for

fertility
.

Speaker 2
16:27

Yeah
,

I

think

it

depends

on

the

woman

and

what

her

desires

are

and

where

she

is
.

And

you

know
,

some

women

really

want

to

be

on

top

of

it
,

want

to

be

ahead

of

it

and

be

proactive
,

and

that

gives

them

peace

of

mind
,

and

others

want

to

take

it

as

it

comes
.

Speaker 1
16:39

So
,

yeah
,

and

some

people

are

just

in

survival

mode

and

they

aren't

thinking
,

and

that

too
,

yeah
.

So

some

people

are

just

in

survival

mode

and

they

aren't

thinking
.

Speaker 2
16:47

And

that

too
,

yeah
,

so

when

I

bring

it
,

up
.

Speaker 1
16:49

They're

like

what

are

you

talking

about
?

Speaker 2
16:50

They're

really

blindsided

by

it
.

Like

why

are

we

talking

about

this
?

Like
,

well
,

because

I

deal

with

so

much

infertility
,

it's

always

on

my

mind

so

I

want

to

bring

it

up
.

I

say
,

and

if

you

don't

want

it
,

that's

fine
,

because

it

is

another

intervention

that

may

be

unnecessary
.

So
,

yeah
,

other

things

you

want

me

I

can

tell

you

that

that

I

see

that

are

really

unknown

with

endometriosis

include

inflammation

in

the

uterus
,

which

could

be

related

directly

to

endometriosis
,

and

sometimes

chronic

endometritis
,

which

means

inflammation

in

the

uterus

from

infection
,

and

then
,

of

course
,

polyps

as

well
.

Importance of Comprehensive Surgery Preparations

Speaker 2
17:31

It's

important

I

like

to

look

for

polyps

in

everyone

and

biopsy

everyone

and

look

with

a

camera

for

anyone

with

abnormal

bleeding

and

or

pain
,

if

they're

going

under

surgery
.

Speaker 2
17:42

Anyway
,

because

it's

again

quick

and

you

can

improve

outcomes
,

because

it's

rare

that

I

don't

find

endometriosis

at

surgery
.

But

if

if

that

is

the

case
,

then

I

usually

find

something

else
.

So

a

common

thing

that

I'll

find

is

an

infection

in

the

uterus
.

So

it

can

exacerbate

endometriosis

pain

or

infertility

or

it

could

be

the

main

cause

of

pain

for

some

women
.

That's

rare

but

I

have

had

that
.

Maybe

one

case

a

year

where

I'm

expecting

endometriosis
.

I

don't

find

it
,

and

in

those

cases

I

usually

find

something

else
,

like

an

infection

in

the

uterus
,

like

E

coli
,

which

shouldn't

be

there
.

And

again
,

that

not

only

will

help

her

outcome

of

pain

and

abnormal

bleeding

but

also

prevents

infertility

down

the

road
.

Because

what

I'm

thinking

of

was

a

teenager
.

Speaker 2
18:28

I

don't

know

how

it

gets

in

there
,

but

it

probably

is

related

to

immune

system

dysfunction
.

We

don't

really

know
.

It's

not

due

to

lack

of

hygiene

or

STDs
.

That's

a

common

question
.

But

that's

an

easy

thing

to

do

at

the

time

of

surgeries

get

some

swabs
,

check

for

infection
,

and

I

do

get

probably

a

lot

more

swabs

than

may

be

needed

because

I'm

covering

for

infertility

as

well
.

But

I

typically

get

aerobic
,

anaerobic

mycoplasma
,

ureaplasma
,

fungal
,

viral
.

We

get

10

swabs
,

but

it

covers
.

That

covers

most

of

them
.

Speaker 1
19:00

Interesting
.

Do

you

think

that

more

doctors

should

be

looking

for

things

like

that

when

patients

come

in
?

I

mean
,

I

think

maybe

across

the

board
,

but

specifically

for

those

who

are

going

in

for

excision

surgery
,

do

you

think

that

we

need

to

take

more

of

those

samples

and

swabs

to

be

able

to

really

identify

if

there's

more

going

on

than

what

you

initially

thought
?

More

than

just

an

endometriosis
?

Yeah
,

thought

more

than

just

endometriosis
.

Speaker 2
19:25

Yeah
,

I

rarely

just

find

endometriosis
.

Typically
,

you

know
,

you

have

your

pre-op

and

post-op

diagnosis
.

My

post-op

diagnosis

is

very

long
.

It's

usually

four

or

five

lines
,

not

just

different

areas

of

endometriosis

but

evidence

of

inflammation

or

polyps

or

cervical

stenosis

or

tubal

stenosis
,

adhesions
.

I

look

at

the

liver
,

you

know
,

and

I

see

if

there's

inflammation

of

liver

or

fatty

liver
.

So

I

tried

to

do

it

just

a

whole

assessment

of

everything

that

I

see

for

health

purposes
,

cause
,

as

you

know
,

women

with

endometriosis

or

pelvic

pain

or

infertility
,

they're

all

very

complicated

and

it's

usually

not

just

one

thing

going

on
.

Especially

by

the

time

they

present

10

years

later
,

after

they've

been

asking

for

help
,

things

have

usually

gotten

pretty

bad

yeah

response
.

Speaker 1
20:26

portion

of

that

is

often

overlooked

because

it's

not

always

a

definitive

picture

right

out

of

the

gate

where

people

aren't

just

thinking
,

oh
,

there's

an

immune

response

to

this
.

It's

oh
,

there's

endometriosis
,

let's

go

get

the

endometriosis
.

But

there's
,

you

know
.

I

think

maybe

that

could

be

another

key

as

to

why

some

of

us

struggle

so

much

postoperatively

as

well

is

maybe

we're

missing

a

piece
,

oh

yeah
.

Speaker 2
20:44

I

mean

there's
.

I'm

always

learning

more

about

the

immune

system
,

about

mast

cell

response
.

I

don't

know

much

about

that
.

I

was

not

taught

about

that

at

all
.

Speaker 2
20:53

And

that's

clearly

an

issue
.

Yeah
,

tons

of

rashes

postoperatively
.

That's

the

most
,

by

far

the

most

common

conflict
.

You

know
,

complication

is

significant
.

Rashes

not

just

a

little

bit
.

But

many

women

react

to

something
,

whether

it's

the

glue
,

whether

it's

the

prep
.

It's

very

common
.

So

clearly

there's

a

lot

more

that

we

need

to

be

doing
.

That

I

don't

know

about
,

but

I'm

always

trying

to

learn
.

That's

why

I

like

being

on

social

media
,

because

I'm

always

learning

from

followers

who

are

telling

me

about

their

experiences
,

what

helped

them
.

Speaker 2
21:23

I

try

to

share

their

raw
,

authentic

experiences
,

because

that's

how

we're

going

to

advance
.

Speaker 1
21:28

Yeah
,

Well
,

and

who

better

to

learn

from

sometimes

than

the

patients
?

Speaker 1
21:32

Because

you

know
,

I

think

you

know

what

I

see

a

lot

of

times

is

doctors

get

really

stuck

in

what

they

know
,

but

it's

because

that's

where

it's

comfortable
,

that's

where

they

excel
,

they

understand

it
.

Speaker 1
21:43

But

sometimes

what

the

patient

is

telling

you

contradicts

what

you

know
,

and

so

if

you're

not

learning

and

growing

from

the

patient
,

sometimes

you

become

stagnant

in

your

care
.

And

I

would

say
,

like

a

lot

of

really

good

surgeons

aren't

that

way

and

they

do

listen

to

their

patients
.

So

that's

kind

of

is

a

generalization

and

not

completely

for

everyone
,

but

I

do

see

that

happen

quite

often
,

where

I'm

really

good

at

this

one

area

as

a

doctor

but

the

patient

is

telling

you

something

completely

different

than

what

you

know
,

and

so

that

can

be
,

I

think
,

uncomfortable

for

doctors
.

I

mean
,

I'm

not

a

doctor
,

but

maybe

you

have

had

that

experience

at

times

where

you're

like

this

is

not

what

I'm

familiar

with
,

but

to

hear

the

patient

out

sometimes

and

kind

of

like
,

suss

it

out

and

see
,

okay
,

is

there

validity

to

this
?

Are

we
,

you

know
?

Is

this

something

I

need

to

look

at

even

further
?

Maybe

our

quality

of

care

would

even

increase

if

patients

spoke

honestly

and

openly

to

doctors

about

these

scenarios
.

Speaker 2
22:46

Yeah
,

I

think
,

and

there's

a

couple

things

contributing

to

that
.

I

mean
.

Number

one

as

a

surgeon

and

a

physician
,

we

need

to

be

in

control

of

the

situation

as

much

as

possible
.

That's

how

we

have

safe

and

good

outcomes

Right
,

and

so

we

need

to

be

in

charge

of

the

operating

room
.

We

need

to

be

in

charge

of

the

labor

and

delivery

room

if

we're

doing

obstetrics
,

and

part

of

that

includes

a

confidence

in

our

knowledge

to

be

able

to

be

in

control
.

Speaker 2
23:12

But
,

on

the

other

hand
,

with

endometriosis
,

there

is

some

humility

that

it

takes

to

be

good

at

what

you

do
,

because

endometriosis

will

constantly

humble

you
.

You

cannot

predict

where

it

will

be
.

It'll

go

on

an

organ

in

a

new

way

every

time
.

No

two

cases

are

the

same
,

and

so
,

especially

in

the

beginning

of

your

career
,

when

you

have

no

idea

what

you're

going

to

encounter

next
,

it's

very

scary
.

That's

one

thing

you

learn

with

endometriosis

and

I

tell

patients

that

all

the

time
.

I

wish

I

could

tell

you

if

you're

stage

one

or

stage

four

or

what

organs

are

involved
.

But

that's

one

of

the

hardest

things

about

endometriosis

is

I

can't

really

predict

your

case

when

I'm

seeing

you

for

a

surgical

consult
.

So

there's

a

balance

there

of

trying

to

handle

that

growth

and

humility

and

confidence

together
.

There

is

a

way

to

do

it
,

but

that's

not

something

that

can

really

be

taught
,

right
?

I
?

Speaker 1
24:03

do

think

patients

appreciate

when

doctors

sit

there

and

say

that's

an

interesting

perspective
.

I

hadn't

thought

about

that
,

and

it

feels

validating

to

the

patient

to

hear

a

doctor

say

you

know
,

that's

a

really

good

point

Because

they're

so

used

to

being

dismissed
.

A

lot

of

times
,

specifically

when

it

comes

to

endometriosis

and

probably

infertility

issues
,

they're

so

used

to

being

dismissed

or
,

you

know
,

doctors

aren't

sure

what

to

do

so

they

just

kind

of

you

know
,

move

them

on

along
,

I

can't

help

you

anymore
.

So

when

a

doctor

is

learning

more

or

willing

to

learn

more

and

say

you

know
,

that's

a

really

interesting

point

of

view
.

I

really

appreciate

that

perspective
.

There

might

be

something

to

that
,

and

so

thank

you

for

taking

that

time

to

listen

and

hear

the

patients

and

hear

the

people

who

have

walked

through

this

day

in

and

day

out

and

are

struggling
,

because

sometimes

that

can

be

the

most

healing

for

sure
.

Speaker 2
24:57

Yeah
,

I

also

have

been

on

the

end

of

being

dismissed
,

even

recently

when

my

husband

needed

back

surgery

on

the

end

of

being

dismissed
.

Speaker 2
25:05

Even

recently
,

when

my

husband

needed

back

surgery
,

I

had

researched

the

advancements

of

back

surgery

and

the

history

of

it

for

10

years

before

we

decided

to

move

forward

with

a

more

invasive

option

for

my

husband

and

we

went

to

someone

local
,

which

is
,

I

was

pretty

confident

we

probably

weren't

going

to

go

with
.

But

it

was

one

of

those

things
.

You

need

to

do

that

step

before

you

go

out

of

network
,

because

I

was

hoping

to

maybe

get

the

more

advanced

treatment

covered
.

It

was

kind

of

like

the

excision

of

back

surgery
.

You

know
,

yeah
,

the

excision

version

of

surgery
.

I

mean
,

if

you

had

to

compare

it

to

endometriosis
,

and

so

it's

hard

to

find

someone

that

does

that

kind

of

care
,

had

to

compare

it

to

endometriosis

and

so

it's

hard

to

find

someone

that

does

that

kind

of

care
.

And

in

some

ways

I

knew

more

about

the

advancements

of

spine

surgery

than

the

surgeon

and

he

was

so

off

foot

by

that

it

didn't

go

very

well
.

You

know
,

I

would

have
.

It

would

have

been

just

really

good

for

him

to

say

he

actually

called

the

next

day

and

apologize

Not

directly

about

the

way

he

approached

it
.

Speaker 2
26:06

But

I

agree
,

I

don't

think

physicians

realize

that

because

they

think

we

the

perspective

of

a

physician

is
,

if

we

admit

our

weakness
,

you're

going

to

lose

trust

in

us
.

I

think

that's

part

of

it

and

so

it's

that

confidence

that

you

want

to

bring
.

But
,

again
,

physicians

sometimes

forget

what

it's

like

as

a

patient
.

To

live

with

a

disease

is

very

different

than

to

treat

a

disease
.

Yeah
,

and

that

patient

experience

is

very

unique

and

you

can't

outdo

that

with

clinical

experience
.

Yeah
,

you

just

you

can't
.

And

and

the

mode

that

you

get

in

when

your

life

has

been

completely

changed

by

a

horrible

disease
,

the

motivation

and

the

hours

and

the

commitment

to

reading

and

learning

and

understanding

is

just

so

different

than

someone

who's

doing

surgery
.

Speaker 1
26:57

Yeah
,

it's

so

true

and

I

think
.

But

it's

also

good

for

the

patients

to

hear

that

perspective

too
,

because

we

can

get

stuck

in

our

journey

and

not

see

the

perspective

of

the

doctor

sometimes

of

like

I

don't

think

they

intended

to

hurt

you
,

I

think

they

just

didn't

understand
,

and

so

we

can

compartmentalize

that

and

we

can

internalize

that

and

it

can

affect

how

we

navigate

our

future

care
,

and

so

I

think

that's

kind

of

a

twofold

thing
,

right
.

Just

as

much

as

we

want

the

doctors

to

continue

learning

and

to

continue

growing

as

patients
,

it's

valuable

for

us

to

be

able

to

do

the

same

and

have

better

understanding

of

our

providers
.

And

if

something

doesn't

sound

right
,

ask

the

question
.

Speaker 1
27:45

I

don't

know

a

provider

that

is

a

good

provider

that

won't

sit

there

and

answer

your

questions
.

If

it's

a

bad

provider
,

they

may

not

wanna

answer

your

questions
,

so

that

may

not

be

the

doctor

for

you
.

But

I

do

think

that

it's

a

relationship

and

you

have

to

foster

that

relationship

responsibly

and

with

integrity

on

both

sides
.

And

I

think

to

foster

that

relationship

responsibly

and

with

integrity

on

both

sides

and

I

think

that

if

we

do

that
,

then

the

partnership

gets

stronger
.

I

mean
,

that's

just

my

take

on

that
.

Speaker 2
28:17

Yeah
,

and

the

surgeon
.

Not

to

knock

on

this

surgeon
,

I

think

he

meant

well
,

I

do
.

Speaker 2
28:22

I

think

he's

a

very

good

doctor

with
,

but

his

toolkit

is

different

than

what

I

needed

and

what

I

was

asking

for

and

so

I

got

him

out

of

his

comfort

zone

and

then

he

wasn't

used

to

that

and

so

I

don't

think

he

knew

how

to

handle

that
.

I

don't

think

it

was

anything

personal

against

me

or

my

husband
,

and

I

think

he

meant

well

and

I

actually

know

he's

a

very

good

surgeon

from

people

I

work

with

who've

worked

with

him

in

the

operating

room
.

He's

very

respectful

to

staff
.

So

it's

a

complicated

topic
,

you

know

it's

complicated
.

Again
,

it

doesn't

mean

that

it's

personal

or

that

they're

a

bad

doctor
.

It's

a

place

that

we

need

to

grow
.

Yeah
.

Speaker 1
28:58

But

I

think

that
,

just

as

to

say
,

is

like

we're

always

continuing

to

grow

in

our

knowledge

and

understanding

of

endometriosis
,

surgical

technique

approaches
,

and

I

think

what's

interesting

is

you

know
,

I

went

to

the

Endometriosis

Summit

and

this

is

part

of

the

Endometriosis

Summit

is

they

have

these

panels

and

they

kind

of

debate

this
,

and

it's

interesting

to

see

that

even

some

of

the

top

excision

specialists

in

the

world

are

learning

from

other

doctors

that

walk

into

the

room

because

they're

having

this
.

I

wouldn't

even

call

it

a

debate

necessarily
,

but

I

would

say

a

discussion

on

different

techniques

and

different

approaches
,

and

it's

all

keeping

in

mind

the

patient

outcome
.

And

if

you

can

find

a

provider

that

has

the

patient

outcome

in

mind
,

I

think

you

have

a

better

chance
.

Speaker 2
29:45

I

think

the

key

is

patient

driven

in

mind
.

I

think

you

have

a

better

chance
.

I

think

the

key

is

patient-driven
,

patient-centered

I

think

you

nailed

it

right

there
.

Truly

patient-centered
,

which

is

hard

to

know

sometimes

when

you

don't
.

For

example
,

if

a

surgeon

doesn't

understand

excision

is

the

best

right
,

then

how

do

they

even

understand

what's

best

for

the

patient

out

there
?

That's

the

challenge
.

Speaker 1
30:08

That's

a

whole

other

topic
.

We

could

probably

talk

for

hours

on

that

topic
.

Speaker 2
30:13

But

if

you

want

me

to

get

into

a

few

other

things
,

that

go

wrong

with

endometriosis
.

Speaker 2
30:19

you

know
,

if

a

woman

comes

to

me

and

her

main

issue

is

endometriosis
,

even

if

it's

advanced

stage
,

I

mean

that's

she's

very

she

has

a

very

high

likelihood

of

success
.

When

you

do

thorough

excision

surgery
,

find

it

all
,

even

a

bowel

resection
,

it

really

improves

fertility

rates

when

needed
.

And

then

adhesion

prevention
,

especially

with

advanced

disease
.

But

these

women

often

have

a

lot

of

other

issues

going

on
,

especially

if

they

tend

to

have

other

risk

factors
,

like

if

they're

older
,

if

they've

had

a

lot

of

abnormal

bleeding
,

if

they

are

married

to

like

a

man

with

severe

male

factor
,

and

so

that's

what

I

talk

about

in

my

discussion

with

these

patients
.

First

we

do

need

to

find

answers
.

So

endometriosis

is

exciting

to

find

because

it's

a

big

answer
,

and

then

it's

a

big

process

to

overcome
.

That

Outcomes

are

really

good
,

especially

if

that's

your

main

thing
.

Evaluating Hormonal Factors in Fertility

Speaker 2
31:16

But

it's

important

that

we

look

at

everything
,

including

do

they

have

an

ovulation

defect
?

So

we

screen

for

women

who

have

ovulation

defects
,

and

so

that

means

the

follicle

doesn't

grow

and

collapse
.

The

key

is

to

watch

it

collapse

as

well

and

rupture

to

make

sure

that

they're

actually

ovulating

and

releasing

an

egg
,

because

there

are

conditions

that

make

it

look

like

she's

ovulating

but

she's

not

really
,

and

so

we

do

an

ultrasound

series

to

confirm

that

she's

actually

ovulating
.

But

she's

not

really
,

and

so

we

do

an

ultrasound

series

to

confirm

that

she's

actually

ovulating
.

Ovulation

defects

where

they

don't

actually

collapse
,

the

follicle

called

luteinized
,

ruptured

follicle

syndrome
,

is

increased

in

women

with

endometriosis

and

again

that

can

be

silent

because

their

hormones

can

go

up

and

make

it

look

like

she

ovulated

after

that
.

Hormone

dysfunction

super

common

where

they

have

low

progesterone

especially
.

Speaker 2
32:04

very

common
,

which

makes

sense

why

they're

especially

if

they

have

low

progesterone

especially

very

common
,

which

makes

sense

why

they're
,

especially

if

they

have

pain
,

why

they're

more

symptomatic

or

maybe

why

their

disease

is

more

severe

because

they

have

an

imbalanced

ratio

of

estrogen

progesterone
.

Progesterone

is

anti-inflammatory

and

likely

helps

offset

the

inflammation

fueled

by

estradiol
.

Other

things

like

insulin

resistance

are

important

to

optimize

because

that's

going

to

worsen

inflammation

and

fertility

issues
.

Women

tend

to

age

their

ovaries

faster
,

so

have

high

FSH
,

may

have

low

DHEA
.

These

are

things

that

are

very

treatable

most

of

the

time
,

as

long

as

you

know
.

We

know

that
.

So

giving

DHEA
,

kind

of

fueling

this

tank
,

kind

of

like

similar

to

I

look

at

it
,

similar

to

ferritin

and

low

iron
,

which

is

also

a

common

issue
.

You

can

do

a

similar

thing

with

hormones

to

kind

of

help

optimize

hormones

If

you

study

that

and

you

can

work

with

the

body

to

help

support

the

hormone

health
.

And

then

we

often

see

low

cervical

mucus

and

so

probably

related

to

inflammation
.

That

can

be

improved

with

excision

sometimes

or

other

times

we

do

give

mucus

enhancers

or

low

dose

naltrexone

can

help

with

ovarian

function

for

women

who

are

going

through

quicker

aging

of

the

ovaries

because

it

helps

reduce

the

autoimmune

component
,

inflammatory

component
.

So

women

feel

better

on

low-dose

naltrexone

and

their

fertility

can

be

improved

on

that

medication
.

Speaker 2
33:29

Thyroid

fatigue

from

maybe

blame

on

endometriosis
,

there

could

be

thyroid

issues
,

there

could

be

low

iron

issues
.

And

then

something

simple

that

may

be

overlooked

is

just

poor

timing

of

intercourse

too
.

Knowing

there's

one

main

day

of

peak

fertility

the

whole

month
,

and

so

we

educate

women

on

thatcourse

too
.

Knowing

there's

one

main

day

of

peak

fertility

the

whole

month
,

and

so

we

educate

women

on

that

main

day
,

so

that's

kind

of

an

overview

of

everything
.

I

mean

it's

a

lot

more

complicated

than

I

can

probably

get

into

right

now
,

but

Right
,

but

at

least

there's

a

starting

point
,

there's

something

to

look

at
.

Speaker 1
33:59

It's

interesting

that

the

low

dose

naltrexone

is

helpful

for

fertility
,

because

I

know

a

lot

of

people

are

starting

to

use

that

for

like

pain

and

pain

response
,

to

help

our

body's

systems

essentially

calm

down
,

because

we

are

always

in

that

fight

flight

mode
,

you

know
,

and

so

a

lot

of

times

that

will

help

kind

of

ease

the

pain
,

kind

of

get

us

out

of

that

heightened

state
.

So

it's

interesting

that

that

works

for

fertility

as

well
.

I

hadn't

heard

that

before
.

Speaker 2
34:30

Yeah
,

it's

phenomenal
,

very

safe
,

very

effective
,

very

affordable
.

It

is

compounded
,

though
,

so

it's

not

going

to

be

marketed

by

big

pharma
.

In

fact
,

it

appears

that

the

research

has

kind

of

been

suppressed

by

big

pharma
.

Interesting

so
,

because

the

research

can't

be

published

in

mainstream

journals
,

because

it

is

a

huge

competitor

for

medications

that

cost

tens

of

thousands

of

dollars

for

Crohn's

disease
,

medications

that

cost

tens

of

thousands

of

dollars

for

Crohn's

disease
.

It's

been

shown

to

really

improve

remission

of

symptoms

in

Crohn's

disease

for

like

30

bucks

a

month

versus

$15,000
.

And

so

these

same

drug

companies

are

advertising

in

the

same

medical

journals

that

would

be

otherwise

publishing

this

data
,

and

so

they

don't

like

that
.

They're

going

to

lose

their

revenue

with

these

journals
.

Speaker 1
35:27

Wow
,

that

is

interesting
.

See
,

these

are

the

things

that
,

as

a

patient
,

we

wouldn't

be

privy

to

without
.

No
,

and

it

was

hard

for

me

to

find

this

out
.

Speaker 2
35:35

But

yeah
,

the

huge
,

the

researcher

that

was

mainly

doing

all

of

this
,

I

believe

she

was

at

Penn

State

in

Pennsylvania
.

She

had

tons

of

research
,

she

was

doing

the

Cuddy

Ignite

research

and

she

cleaned

her

website

of

her

research
.

So

I

heard

from

a

physician

who

follows

this

really

closely
.

Speaker 1
35:51

Interesting
.

That's

fascinating
.

I

just

I

know

that

a

lot

of

people

in

my

inner

circle

have

benefited

significantly

from

doing

it

and

it

seems

to

really

help

with

the

pain

more

than

you

know

any

other

drug

that

they've

taken
.

Speaker 2
36:08

So

I

personally

have

benefited

from

it
.

Yeah

yeah
,

I

had

nerve

pain

from

Lyme

disease

and

it

went

away

in

three

months
,

which

is

when

the

amount

of

time

it

takes

for

it

to

work

optimally

is

three

months
.

Speaker 1
36:21

Interesting
.

Okay
,

well
,

this

is

a

whole

nother

topic

we're

going

to

have

to

come

back

to

at

another

time
.

Speaker 2
36:30

I

mean
,

the

risks

are

mainly

vivid

dreams

is

the

most

common

risk

side

effect
.

I

should

say

yeah
,

and

then

some

might

have

decreased

appetite
,

which

can

be

a

problem

with

women

with

low

BMI

you

know
,

which

can

happen

with

endometriosis
.

Speaker 2
36:45

So

that's

something

to

talk

about
.

But

really

you

can

stop

it

anytime

if

there's

an

issue
.

There's

no

problem

with

that
.

We

go

up

slow

just

to

make

sure

women

can

adjust
,

just

because

women

with

endometriosis

tend

to

be

very

sensitive

to

medication
.

So

you

don't

have

to

taper

up

slowly
,

but

we

just

tend

to

do

that
.

It's

the

most

well

tolerated

that

way
.

Speaker 1
37:07

Interesting
.

Okay
,

something

else

that

I

think

would

be

interesting

to

understand

and

know

is

do

you

see

a

lot

of

patients

that

come

in

that

maybe

don't

have

any

pain

but

are

just

struggling

Because

you

know
,

we

know

that

with

endometriosis

specifically
,

they

don't

always

have

pain

and

so

they

go

in
,

but

they're

just

struggling

for

fertility

and

that's

how

they

find

they

have

the

endometriosis
.

Do

you

see

that

often
,

or

is

that

not

as

often

as

the

pain
?

Speaker 2
37:36

I

see

it

pretty

often

more

often

than

you

would

expect

where

the

pain

is

less

than

you

would

think

for

the

amount

of

disease

that

they

have
.

When

you

finally

do

look
,

it's

amazing
.

I

don't

understand
.

I

know

if

you

talk

to

any

experienced

endosurgeon
,

no

one

is

going

to

say

I'm

super

confident

in

predicting

endometriosis

stage

based

on

symptoms
,

because

it

makes

no

sense
.

It

has

a

mind

of

its

own
.

It

does
.

It

makes

no

sense
.

I've

seen

some

of

the

worst

cases

with

minimal

pain
.

Speaker 1
38:12

Yeah
,

but

I've

talked

to

many

people

who

are

like

I

didn't

have

a

ton

of

endo
,

but

my

pain

was

severe

and

debilitating

and

that's

why

you

know

those

are

the

best

right
.

It's

never

wording

You're

like

oh
,

straightforward

for

me
.

You're

like

this

was

a

walk

in

the

park

for

me

today

I

love

it
.

So

this

is

just

a

good

reminder

that

pain

doesn't

necessarily

mean

a

ton

of

disease

and

no

pain

means

no

disease
.

That's

why
,

again
,

having

a

specialist

on

your

team

makes

the

biggest

difference
.

Speaker 2
38:36

Yeah
,

just

the

other

week

I

had

someone

that

came

to

me

just

for

a

Dermoid
,

but

I

had

no

pain

before

the

Dermoid
.

It's

definitely

just

the

Dermoid
.

I

have

nothing

else

going

on
.

She

scored

seven
,

I

think
,

on

the

survey
,

but

mainly

because

of

the

dermoid
.

She

thought

she

had

very

advanced

stage

four

and

the

dermoid

was

actually

mixed

in

with

an

endometrioma
.

It

was

together
.

Luckily
.

I

consented

her

for

it
,

but

I

don't

think

she

really

mentally

was

prepared

for

that

diagnosis

and

she

really

wants

a

family
.

That's

so
.

That

was

a

tricky

situation
.

Speaker 1
39:07

Yeah
,

you

had

talked

a

little

bit

about

hormones

and

the

part

that

they

play

in

your

practice
.

Can

you

explain

that

a

little

bit

more

and

the

use

that

you

have

for

them

and

how

you

utilize

them
?

Speaker 2
39:22

Sure
,

one

of

my

favorite

treatments

hormonally

is

progesterone
.

What

I

do

is

a

full

hormone

profile

based

on

a

woman's

ovulation
.

So

the

reason

why

most

doctors

don't

do

tests

is

because

doctors

assume

all

women

ovulate

on

psychedate

14
,

and

that's

maybe

10%

of

women

who

actually

do

that
.

So

you

can't

really

test

hormones

based

on

that

assumption
.

Right

how

to

really

test

hormones

is

to

know

when

a

woman

ovulates
,

which

changes

on

any

given

cycle
,

and

be

able

to
.

I

get

hormones

three
,

five
,

seven
,

nine

and

11

days

after

that

and

I

watched

the

rise

and

fall

of

progesterone

and

estrogen

and

I

often

see

a

progesterone

deficiency
,

sometimes

in

conjunction

with

estrogen

deficiency
,

sometimes

with

high

estrogen
,

frequently

with

low

progesterone
.

They

have

a

very

truncated

second

half

of

the

menstrual

cycle
.

That's

pretty

frequent
,

or

premenstrual

spotting

is

another

frequent

symptom

of

low

progesterone

Fertility, Hormones, and Emotional Support

Speaker 2
40:19

.

So

cooperatively

working

with

the

cycle
,

giving

body

identical

progesterone
,

helps

tremendously

with

bleeding
,

pain
,

inflammation

and

fertility
.

It's

a

very

cheap

option

and

it

helps

with

implantation
.

You

know
,

if

a

woman

was

trying

to

conceive

it

can

even

help

with

PMS

symptoms
.

We

often

see

a

correlation

of

hormone

fluctuations

with

the

onset

of

PMS

symptoms
.

So

I'm

actually

doing

a

study

right

now

based

to

prove

that
,

because

that's

not

even

proven
.

You

would

think

that

basic

event

of

PMS

and

hormone

fluctuation

would

be

a

proven

correlation
,

but

it's

not

at

all
.

It's

not

researched
,

mainly

because

researchers

don't

really

understand

the

female

menstrual

cycle
,

because

it's

so

different

between

woman

to

woman

in

cycle

to

cycle
.

And

so

I'm

working

with

cycle

charting

and

hormone

testing

that

patients

would

be

undergoing

anyway

and

just

correlating

that

with

the

survey

based

on

symptoms
,

and

then

we're

going

to

treat

them

and

watch

them

improve
.

Now

you

may

know

that

there's

often

a

progesterone

resistance

with

women

with

endometriosis
,

and

so

for

those

we

can

try

going

up

on

more

capsules
.

So

we

not

only

treat

the

numbers

but

we

treat

the

symptoms

right
.

They're

both

important
.

And

so

some

women

we

need

to

be

more

aggressive

and

get

the

progesterone

shot
,

and

I've

had

women

say

that

that

changed

their

life
.

Speaker 2
41:41

I

had

one
.

She

was

thinking

about

coming

back

for

endosurgery

again
.

She

really

didn't

want

to
,

but

she

didn't

know

what

else

to

do
,

and

then

we

started

on

progesterone
.

I

said

let's

just

try

these

shots
.

They're

not

fun
,

but

for

women

that

are

suffering
,

to

try

these

progesterone

shots
,

you

know
,

instead

of

surgery

it's

been

much

less

invasive
.

So

she

said

she

had

the

best

period

of

her

life
.

Her

husband

noticed

and

now

she

doesn't

want

to

do

repeat

surgery
.

I

really

think

it

helped

me

rule

out

that

the

recurrence

of

endometriosis

for

her
,

I

think
.

So

it's

really

neat
,

it's

really

tailored

protocol

that

we

can

work

with

the

patient

and

then

we

can

check

when

she's

on

these

hormones

to

see

if

she's

at

a

good

level
.

And

you

know

this

should

be

very

helpful

for

her

whole

health

of

her

brain
,

of

her

bones
,

for

her

whole

health

of

her

brain
,

of

her

bones

breast

tissue
.

Speaker 1
42:30

All

of

that

is

supported

by

bioidentical

hormones
.

That's

an

interesting
.

I

haven't

really

heard

that

before
,

so

that's

interesting
.

Speaker 2
42:34

Yeah
,

we

monitor

it

because

we

don't

want

estrogen

to

be

super

high

and

we

want

the

ratio

of

estrogen

progesterone

to

be

in

balance
,

because

progesterone

should

be

in

a

natural

setting

and

the

second

half

of

the

cycle

very

dominant

over

estrogen

and

that

technically
,

I

think
,

has

an

effect

on

this

next

couple

of

weeks
.

Even

so
,

it's

technically
,

I

believe
,

protective
.

I

have

to

do

more

research

for

the

whole

cycle
.

Um
,

we

definitely

see

improvements

in

pain

and

blood

flow

for

the

menses

after

that
.

Speaker 2
43:04

But

one

thing

that

I

do

when

I

review

charts

and

I

see

women

who

went

through

IVF
,

their

estrogen

I

never

should

see

it

really

above

300
.

And

that

should

be

around

ovulation
,

maybe

400

max
,

just

for

a

day

After

ovulation
.

It

really

shouldn't

get

much

higher

than

well
.

Our

goal

is

120

plus

from

you

know
,

maybe

up

to

170
.

I

don't

like

to

see

it

higher
.

They

don't

typically

check

after

stimulation

in

IVF

very

often
,

but

when

they

do

there'll

be

over

a

thousand

estrogen

and

that

I've

seen

it

many

times
.

And

not

to

mention
,

some

of

these

women

still

have

endometriomas

and

then

they're

going

to

be

doing

egg

retrievals

while

the

estrogen

is

through

the

roof

and

so

they're

poking

these

ovaries

and

causing

bleeding

and

so

those

are

the

pelvises

that

I

dread

going

in
.

Speaker 1
44:02

That's

a

hard

discussion

to

have
,

too

going

in
.

That's

a

hard

discussion

to

have

too
.

How

do

you

talk

to

your

patients

when

there

are

possibilities

of

not

having

the

outcome

that

they

want
?

How

do

you

address

those
?

Speaker 2
44:13

Yeah
,

I

mean
,

I

think

it's

important

to

be

upfront

from

the

beginning
.

First

of

all
,

I'm

very

optimistic

from

the

get-go
.

I

always

try

to

point

at

the

positive

things
.

But

then

I

also

say

no

one

can

ever

promise

you

a

baby
,

right
,

and

I

think

everyone

knows

that
,

Right
.

But

and

if

anyone

says

that

or

says
,

if

you

give

me

enough

money
,

I'll

give

you

a

baby
,

you

know
,

doctors

have

said

that
.

I've

heard

patients

have

told

me

that
.

You

know

they're

red

flags

that

you

should

run

away

from

anyone

guaranteeing

a

baby

after

infertility
.

Speaker 2
44:44

But

what

I

do

say

is

at

least

in

the

process

you're

going

to

find

answers

and

you're

going

to

find

healing
.

In

the

end

you

won't

be

broke
.

I

do

take

insurance
.

I

know

not

all

endometriosis

surgeons

are

able

to

do

that

so

hopefully

you

won't

be

broken

emotionally
,

physically
,

financially
.

In

fact

you

should

be

at

least

feeling

better

at

the

end
,

and

that's

one

thing

we

have

more

control

over
.

We

don't

have

total

control

of

the

outcome
.

And

then

we

also

I

try

to

invite
,

you

know
,

discussion

of

being

a

mother

now

and

other

non-biological

ways
,

and

there

are

beautiful

ways

of

doing

that
.

And

so

many

women

have

this

beautiful

calling

of

volunteering

somewhere

or

whatever

their

calling

is
,

and

I

really

encourage

them

to

not

let

infertility

rob

them

of

that
.

So

we

talk

about

that

and

try

to

really

focus

on

other

ways

of

being

a

mother

today

and

not

letting

infertility

rob

someone

of

their

life

or

bring

desperation

in
,

because

that's

when

we

get

into

problems

right
,

Both

physically

in

our

health

and

financially
.

Speaker 1
45:50

And

it's

interesting

that

you

say

that
,

because

I

do

know

there

are

a

lot

of

people

who

put

a

lot

of

weight

into

becoming

parents
.

And

right
,

I

mean
,

if

you

have

that

desire

and

that

passion

to

become

a

parent
,

it's

so

deep

rooted

and

if

you're

unable

to
,

you

grieve

and

you

grieve

hard

and

it

is
,

it's

a

stressor

in

a

relationship
,

it's

a

stressor

in

your

mental

health

and

your

emotional

health
.

Do

you

have

a

counselor

on

your

staff

or

people

that

you

refer

to

through

this

process
?

Speaker 2
46:21

I

wish
,

I

wish
,

we

would

love

to

have

one

on

staff
.

So

unfortunately

we

me

and

my

nurses

end

up

doing

counseling

that

we're

not

qualified

to

do
.

We

do

try

to

encourage

support

groups

and

books

and

therapists
,

and

we

do

have

people

that

we

do

recommend
.

We

would

love

for

someone

in

our

clinic

to

be

there

on

the

premises

because

it's

so

needed
.

Every

single

woman

facing

infertility

goes

through

trauma
,

like

you

said
,

and

the

problem

is

it's

so

drawn

out
,

it's

invisible
.

Women

look

healthy

on

the

outside

and

couples

and

so

they

feel

so

alone
.

Yeah
,

and

just

that

long

grieving

process

right

Of

your

dreams

of

this

life

that

you

envisioned

for

so

many

years
,

that

maybe

no

one

warned

you

you

know

you

thought

it

was

guaranteed

so

many

years
.

Speaker 1
47:08

What

is

your

advice

to

those

people

who

are

trying

to

seek

out

whether

to

do

IVF

or

what

the

next

stage

of

trying

for

a

family

should

be
,

if

they

know

that

they

have

endometriosis

or

even

if

they

don't

know
,

if

they

have

something

that's

prohibitive

physiologically
?

Speaker 2
47:27

I

think

everyone

deserves

answers

Understanding Infertility

Speaker 2
47:29

.

With

going

through

infertility
,

the

least

someone

deserves

is

knowing

why
.

My

least

favorite

diagnosis

is

obviously

unexplained

infertility
,

because

that's

not

really

a

diagnosis
,

right
?

Well
,

the

doctors

gave

up

or

they

stopped
.

You

know

conventional

tests
,

the

basic

test

didn't

find

an

answer
.

So

I

think

knowing

why

is

extremely

important

for

healing

emotionally

and

physically
.

Right
,

because

knowing

for

example
,

I

found

cancers

in

patients

with

infertility

not
,

you

know

it's

not

common
,

but

you

know

there

are

serious

issues

that

lead

to

infertility
,

and

so

someone

is

worthy

to

know

why
.

Speaker 2
48:09

Is

it
?

Male

factor
,

is

it
?

And

if

it's

a

male

factor
,

he

has

an

increased

risk

of

a

shorter

life

expectancy
.

So

there's

abnormalities

on

SFA
,

it's

often

a

sign

of

underlying

health

issues
,

and

so

it's

a

predictor

of

future

health
.

And

so

I

think

it's

important

to

find

answers

for

emotional

and

physical

healing
,

first

and

foremost
,

and

being

empowered

with

what

is

going

on

and

having

a

sense

of

support

from

each

other

or

faith

or

friends

or

other

people

going

through

infertility
,

support

groups

when

navigating

these

decisions

and

not

going

from

that

place

of

desperation

because

that's

when

people

have

a

report

first

mortgage

on

their

house
,

and

then

they

have

no

baby

and

no

money
,

or

no

money

for

adoption

and

I

had

a

patient

that

failed

IVF

three

times

and

they

were

like

just

do

it

again
.

And

she

was

very

smart
,

she

and

her

husband

were

very
,

very

intelligent

and

they

were

like

why

would

I

repeat

the

same

thing
?

And

so

they

came

to

me
.

I

said
,

oh
,

and

she

was

older

too
,

you

know
,

for

trying
,

you

know

like

30
,

late

30s

or

40
.

Speaker 2
49:17

And

I

said

you

know

this

is

probably

endometriosis

and

we

were

going

to

do

a

full
,

thorough

surgery

and

her

pre-op

labs

she

had

a

positive

ACG
.

Speaker 1
49:28

Oh

my

gosh
.

Speaker 2
49:29

So

just

through

time

to

intercourse

and

maybe

we

get

a

few

little

like

maybe

hormone

support

like

a

couple

of

little

things

time

to

intercourse

hormone

support

and

and

that's

true

20

of

couples

that

fail

ivf

will

go

on

to

conceive

naturally
.

Speaker 2
49:44

Yeah
,

so

clearly
,

to

me

that's

proof

that

too

many

patients

are

told

to

do

ivf
.

Right
,

if

20

conceived

naturally
,

naturally
,

that's

proving

that's

without

any

intervention
.

Imagine

how

much

higher

we

get

that

when

we

actually

work

and

treat

endometriosis
,

treat

hormone

dysfunction
,

treat

ovulation

disorders
,

improve

the

seminal

fluid

analysis

and

then

in

the

process

of

I

also

help

men

to
,

the

couple

feels

better

and

and

they're

excited

to

feel

better
.

And

there

are

milestones
,

because

often

with

a

long

journey

of

infertility
,

you

don't

have

a

lot

of

wins
.

Right
,

because

you're

looking

for

the

one

win

of

the

test
.

That's

positive
.

But

what

I

say

is

you

should

look

for

your

biomarkers

on

your

chart

to

be

better

as

far

as

abnormal

bleeding
,

pain
,

energy
.

All

of

that

should

be

improving

as

we're

optimizing

your

health
.

And

so

in

the

end
,

let's

get

you

feeling

better
.

We're

going

to

get

there
.

Bonus
,

if

we

can

have

a

pregnancy

and

a

healthy

pregnancy
.

Speaker 1
50:42

Most

often

they

are

healthy

when

we

get

them

to

that

point

oh
,

so

good

to

hear

for

a

lot

of

people

and

you

know
,

and

I

have

heard

from

other

patients

who

have

done

ibf

and

it's

affected

them

negatively

with

their

health
,

and

so

I

I

want

to

encourage

people
,

before

taking

drastic

steps
,

to

really

look

at

a

big

picture
,

to

consider
,

and

it's

so

hard

because
,

just

like

with

endo
,

if

you

just

trust

your

neighborhood

OBGYN
,

you're

told

you

do

this
,

you

take

this

pill
,

you

do

this

IUI
,

you

do

this

quick

fix

Right
.

Speaker 2
51:20

And

the

OBGYN

themselves

they

mean

well
,

it's

not

that

it's

not

always

the

best

option
,

but

they

don't

know

what

they

don't

know
.

Speaker 2
51:27

When

you

look

at

all

the

options
,

they

don't

exactly
.

It's

so

different

when

someone

does

all

their

research

right
,

because

they

may

avoid

heartache
,

they

get

answers
.

Just

being

a

self

advocate

is

just

so

important
,

you

know
,

and

just

knowledge

and

awareness

before

any

decision

is

made
.

Because

the

algorithm

is

okay

try

to

conceive

for

12

months
,

random

intercourse

if

you're

not

pregnant
.

Next

step

ovulation

medication

for

three

months
,

which

I

don't

like

to

give

blindly

either
.

Right
,

if

someone

has

an

endometrioma

I'm

not

going

to

throw

high

dose

ovulation

meds
.

I

usually

just

stop

all

treatments

and

say

I

really

recommend
.

I

mean

it's

up

to

the

patient
.

You

know

we

talk

about

risks

but

most

patients

I

don't

want

them

to

rupture

that

because

that

if

they

rupture

their

endometrioma

that's

going

to

really

cause

adhesions

and

long-term

hurt

their

success
.

So

we

talked

about

they're

more

expedited

on

the

surgical

list

to

talk

about

risk

benefits
.

So

we

try

to

avoid

ovulation
.

Medic

post-pig

support

is

fine
,

but

ovulation

medications

we

try

to

avoid

overstimulating

or

even

minor

stimulation

of

the

ovaries
.

But

typically

patients

are

doing

three

rounds

of

ovulation

meds
,

just

some

random

dose
,

not

even

knowing

if

they

need

it

they

may

be

ovulatory
.

Then

three

rounds

of

IUI
,

then

three

rounds

of

IVF

and

then
,

if

it

fails
,

oh
,

do

more

IVF
.

Speaker 2
52:41

So

there's

some

fertility

doctors

that

people

have

messaged

me

where

they

do

look

for

endometriosis

and

treat

it
.

Some

REIs

do
.

I'm

very

impressed

when

they

do
.

There

are

definitely

some

exceptional

ones

that

are

very

good

surgeons
.

Now

the

problem

with

REI

as

far

as

endometriosis

is

concerned

from

that

perspective

is

that

most

of

them

admit

that

they

haven't

had

enough

surgical

training
.

Their

focus

is

IVF
.

So

you

have

to

think

about

it
.

As

I'm

going

to

this

doctor
,

their

main

specialty

is

IVF
.

They

have

some

knowledge

of

endometriosis
.

For

me
,

I

frequently

look

in

these

pelvises

of

women

going

through

infertility

and

I'll

even

repeat

surgeries

on

patients

I've

done

surgery

on

if

they

haven't

conceived

in

18

months

and

we

feel

like

you

know

we've

gotten

ovulation

and

all

these

other
.

We

don't

see

any

major

obstacles
.

Speaker 2
53:31

I

will

offer

a

second

look

to

potentially

see

if

there

are

adhesions

or

an

amyotriosis
.

And

so

you

know

I've

really

been

able

to

through

this

experience

and

having

a

lot

of

continuity

of

care

of

patients

really

helped

me

understand

the

disease

and

what

to

expect

in

patients
,

and

obviously

it

varies

depending

on

the

patient
.

But

REIs
,

they

don't

typically

have

that

continuity
.

They

don't

really

have

training

in

tubal

corrective

surgery

almost

at

all

Most

of

them
,

I

think
.

I

mean

it's

an

exception

if

they

do
.

Speaker 2
54:03

And

so

you

have

to

think

about

the

bias

of

and

I

tell

patients

this

I

say

I

am

a

surgeon
,

that

is

my

bias
.

I

don't

do

this

procedure
.

So

I

just

want

to

let

you

know

and

be

transparent

that

when

you

walk

in

my

clinic
,

I'm

going

to

probably

think

of

endometriosis

more

than

others
,

of

endometriosis

more

than

others
,

and

that's

my

tool
.

So

if

you

go

to

another

doctor
,

just

think

about

what

tools

they

have
.

It's

going

to

lead

their

bias

into

their

treatment
,

and

so

it's

important

when

you

know

what

treatments

are

and

what

are

the

causes

of

infertility
,

you're

empowered

to

understand

okay
,

not

only

what

do

I

need
,

but

why

is

this

doctor

offering

this
?

And

so

it

just

helps

with

that

informed

consent

process
,

absolutely
.

Speaker 1
54:45

Can

you

explain

what

an

REI

is

for

those

who

maybe

don't

know

what

that

is
?

Speaker 2
54:50

Yeah
,

so

it's

a

reproductive

endocrinologist

and

infertility

specialist
,

so

they

have

an

additional

board

certification
.

They

do

a

fellowship

in

infertility
.

With

the

advent

of

Flomid

in

the

60s

and

IVF

in

the

70s
,

rei

really

that

subspecialty

really

changed

its

focus

to

those

type

of

procedures

and

IUI
,

which

is

actually

from

the

17th

century

Instead

of

before

that

time
,

before

the

1960s
,

they

were

really

endocrinologists

looking

at

root

cause
.

They

were

more

looking

for

those

types

of

things
.

Looking

at

root

cause
,

they

were

more

looking

for

those

kinds

of

things
,

and

when

these

technologies

came

about
,

like

clomid
,

they

thought

oh
,

there's

a

quick

pill
,

it's

going

to

get

everyone

pregnant
.

10
,

20

years

later

we

realized

clomid

doesn't

have

that

high

success

for

pregnancy

alone
.

So

then

after

that

though
,

so

then

they

were

doing

less

surgery
.

Speaker 2
55:41

When

Clomid

happened

and

then

with

IVF
,

that

again

happened
,

where

they're

like

okay
,

this

is

the

fix
,

we

don't

need

to

put

patients

through

all

this

surgery
.

It

sounded

so

great

and

it

sounded

so

promising

that

it

would

have

super

high

success
.

Unfortunately
,

it

didn't

have

high

success
,

especially

for

women

that

are

older
.

So

women

that

are

infertile

tend

to

be

older

and

women

with

endometriosis

have

lower

success

rates
,

especially

deep

infiltrative
.

But

the

problem

is

it

takes

10
,

20

years

to

see

the

success

and

in

those

decades

skills
,

surgical

skills

are

lost

forever

potentially
.

And

so

the

art

of

surgery

is

pretty

rare
,

especially

for

tubal

surgery

and

endometriosis

surgery
.

Obviously

no
,

tubal

surgery

is

even

harder
,

unfortunately
,

to

find

surgeons

to

do

that
.

So

that's

kind

of

the

evolution
.

Speaker 2
56:31

I

don't

think

it's

by

anyone's

fault
.

I

think

it

was

through
.

Oh
,

this

is

going

to

be

easier
,

less

invasive
,

quicker
.

It

gets

the

outcome

we

want
,

right
.

I

mean

it's

very

appealing

because
,

especially

for

patients

to

and

doctors
,

because

it

sounds

great

you

just

put

the

embryo

in

and

you

have

a

baby
,

right
.

Well
,

it's

obvious

doesn't

work

out

that

way
.

Speaker 2
56:51

So

yeah
,

that's
,

there's

a

history

behind

that
,

and

so
,

unfortunately
,

rei

fellowships

focus

mainly

on

IVF

training
,

and

they

do
.

It

depends

on

the

training

program
,

but

there

was

a

survey

a

few

years

ago

and

I

think

over

50%

said

I

wish

I

had

more

surgical

training
.

So

that's

again
.

I

think

it

speaks

to

the

REI
.

As

far

as
,

do

they

talk

about

endometriosis
?

How

upfront

are

they

about

the

different

diagnoses
?

Do

they

try

to

avoid

IVF
?

Do

they

try

to

do

it

as

last

resort
?

We

definitely

see

those
.

They're

just

more

rare
.

The

one

I

trained

under

he

didn't

have

a

diagnosis
.

He

actually

based

his

treatment

on

ability

to

pay
,

so

for

me

my

experience

is

biased
.

It's

not

great
,

because

that

definitely

was

not

a

good

introduction

to

me

as

to

his

approach
.

Speaker 1
57:45

It's

interesting

how

history

affects

the

trajectory

of

a

disease
.

Speaker 2
57:49

The

pill

was

around

the

same

time

in

the

60s

right
,

so

women

are

feeling

better

on

the

pill
.

It

must

stop

the

progression
.

Speaker 1
57:56

Right
,

of

course
,

that's

what

they

know
.

It's

an

easy

solution
,

so

easy
,

of

course
.

Speaker 2
58:01

It's

what

they
.

You

know

it's

an

easy

solution
.

It's

all

so

easy
.

So

I

think

all

of

that

came

together
.

It's

definitely

appealing
.

It's

much

quicker
.

We

all

have

physicians

and

patients

alike

we

love

quick

fixes

and

so

it's

seen

that

way
,

and

I

mean

that's

the

hard

part

about

what

I

do

is

that

it

takes

time
.

There's

no

quick

fix

involved
.

It's

definitely

more

of

an

investment

in

time
.

So

that

can

be

really

hard

and

it's

not

for

everyone
.

Not

everyone

wants

that
.

Speaker 1
58:27

But

for

those

who

have

struggled

for

many

years

and

have

done

what

they

thought

were

all

the

right

steps
,

this

is

definitely

a

good

step

to

consider

as

well
.

So

there's

another

resource

to

put

into

your

tool

belt

in

navigating

this

journey
.

It's

so

intriguing

to

find

this

out

because

this

is

all

stuff

that

you

know
.

I

had

very

little

knowledge

on

anything

that

you

do

prior

to

really

doing

my

research

and

being

introduced

to

you

through

via

the

Instagram
.

And

if

you

want

to

follow

more
,

where

can

people

follow

you

on

Instagram
?

Speaker 2
59:00

My

handle

is

naprofertilitysurgeon
.

There

you

go
,

and

my

name

I'm

sure

it's

on

there

too

Naomi

Whitaker
.

Speaker 1
59:06

Yeah
,

so

is

there

anything

else

that

you

would

find

pertinent

for

listeners

to

hear

that

would

be

beneficial

for

them

in

this
?

Speaker 2
59:18

journey
,

you

know
,

finding

someone

who

won't

ever

give

up
.

Like

for

my

patients
,

we're

going

to

keep

looking
.

Obviously
,

within

reason

there's

a

time

and

a

place

where

we

get

to

a

point

where
,

mentally
,

they're

done

and

and

then

sometimes

they

just

want

permission

to

be

done
.

They've

been

doing

this

for

five

plus

years

and

they
,

they

want

someone

to

tell

them

they're

not

giving

up

but

that

it's
,

it's

okay
,

they

covered

all

the

bases

and

then

they're

at

peace
,

which

is

amazing
.

To

get

to

that
,

you

know
,

no

one

can

ever

guarantee

you

a

baby
.

But

to

be

able

to

feel

like

you

had

a

thorough

workup
,

you

had

support

and

you

found

all

the

answers

and

you're

healthier
,

and

then

to

close

on

that

chapter
,

you

know
,

think

about

the

end
,

Hopefully
.

Obviously

we

want

a

baby

and

that

is

great

and

it

doesn't

heal

the

pain

of

infertility

but

that's

the

best

outcome

we

would

want
.

But

what

happens

kind

of

worst

case

scenario

after

working

with

a

provider
.

Hopefully

you

at

least

got

answers

and

healing

and

peace

when

you

went
.

Speaker 2
1:00:21

Look

back
,

because

a

lot

of

closing

the

infertility

chapter

is

which

people

don't

talk

about
,

because

no

one

wants

to

talk

about
.

There

is

a

time

sometimes

when

we

close

trying

for

that

biological

baby
.

But

what

women

want

to

want

to

know

when

they

close

that

chapter

is

they

are

going

to

have

peace
.

They're

going

to

have

peace

in

the

moment
,

knowing

we

tried

so

hard

to

cover

all

our

bases
.

We

did

everything

within

reason
.

As

far

as

you

know
,

excision

Some

people

don't

want

excision
,

right
.

But

whatever
,

it

is

within

reason

for

them

and

they

can

look

back

in

five
,

10

years

and

say

you

know
,

we

worked

hard

and

I

don't

know

what

a

journey

that

was
,

but

they

have

a

sense

of

peace
.

I

think

that's

what

people

look

for

when

they're

closing

that

chapter
.

Speaker 1
1:01:04

Yeah
,

absolutely
.

That's

a

good

point

to

make
,

because

I

think

a

lot

of

us
,

if

we're

faced

with

that
,

it

is

a

really

hard

thing

to

kind

of

find

peace

with
.

But

if

you

know

that

you've

done

everything

that

you

possibly

can

with

a

really

good

provider
,

I

think

there

is

a

sense

of

peace

there

Not

to

say

that

there's

not

grieving

that

happens

because

I

think

that's

always

going

to

be

the

case

but

I

do

think

to

have

peace
,

knowing

that

you

did

your

absolute

best

to

fulfill

that

dream

and

that

desire
.

Advocating for a Difficult Issue

Speaker 1
1:01:38

Dr

Whitaker
,

thank

you

so

much

for

joining

me

today

and

just

taking

the

time
.

Oh
,

yeah
,

I

mean
,

this

is

not

an

easy

topic

to

talk

about

and

you

make

it

so

much

easier

to

highlight

this

in

a

way

that

gives

good

information
.

So

thank

you

so

much

for

taking

the

time

to

do

that
.

Speaker 2
1:01:56

Yeah
,

so

happy

to

help
.

Definitely

very

close

to

my

heart

this

issue
,

so

thank

you

for

talking

about

it

Absolutely
,

and

until

next

time
,

everyone

continue

advocating

for

you

and

for

those

to

help
.

Definitely

very

close

to

my

heart

this

issue
,

so

thank

you

for

talking

about

it

absolutely

and

until

next

time
,

everyone

continue

advocating

for

you

and

for

those

that

you

love
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