Part 2:A Roundtable Discussion On A Year of Triumphs, Trials, and Lessons in Advocacy and Podcasting

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What if you had the power to navigate your own health decisions, armed with accurate information and backed by a supportive community? In this fascinating episode, we share our journey of advocacy for endometriosis, protecting the community by ensuring they receive correct and helpful information. We recognize the value of personal recommendations in selecting healthcare providers and stress the significance of mindful advocacy. With an eye on the future, we touch on the series coming up in 2024 covering topics such as interstitial cystitis.

Having diverse voices in the podcast space is not just an ideal, but a necessity. Especially when discussing a complex issue like endometriosis, experiences can differ vastly based on our backgrounds. In our conversation, we underscore the importance of bringing the unique experiences into the spotlight. We also examine the different challenges of navigating endometriosis in different countries and the critical role of evidence-based research. At the same time, we open up about our lessons learned as podcasters, the surprises we’ve encountered, and the overwhelming support from practitioners in the endometriosis community.

As we wrap up this illuminating discussion, we delve into the future plans and priorities for our podcast. We emphasize the importance of addressing co-conditions alongside Endometriosis, as well as the power of diverse voices from different countries and languages. As well as fostering an intentional space to support couples of all backgrounds. Finally, we express our heartfelt gratitude to all those who have supported our podcasting journey, reflecting on the importance of community when dealing with chronic illnesses and the lessons learned thus far. Join us and be a part of this journey as we advance understanding, advocacy, and empowerment in the world of endometriosis.

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Navigating Endometriosis and Advocacy

Speaker 1
0:03

Welcome

to

Indobattery
,

where

I

share

about

my

endometriosis

and

adenomyosis

story

and

continue

learning

along

the

way
.

This

podcast

is

not

a

substitute

for

professional

medical

advice

or

diagnosis
,

but

a

place

to

equip

you

with

information

and

a

sense

of

community
,

ensuring

you

never

have

to

face

this

journey

alone
.

Join

me

as

I

navigate

the

ups

and

downs

and

share

stories

of

strength
,

resilience

and

health

while

navigating

the

world

of

endometriosis

and

adenomyosis
,

from

personal

experience

to

expert

insights
.

I'm

your

host
,

elana
,

and

this

is

Indobattery

charging

our

lives

when

endometriosis

drains

us
.

Welcome

to

Indobattery's

one-year

celebration
.

Thanks

for

ringing

in

your

two

of

this

podcast

with

me
.

Like

every

great

birthday
,

my

guests

and

I

celebrate

with

two

episodes
.

Join

us

as

we

continue

our

roundtable

discussion

on

the

Year

of

Trials

Trials

and

Lessons

in

Advocacy

and

Podcasting
.

This

is

where

we

left

off

and

where

we're

going
.

I

think

you're

being

protective

of

everyone
,

which

is

we

need

that

so

protective
.

Speaker 2
1:09

Yeah
,

yeah
,

yeah
,

and

I

know

we

all

are
.

I

mean

this

is

advocates

and

people

who

just

know

the

gravity

of

the

level

of

harm

that

can

be

done

just

in

a

comment

that

a

provider

says

that

it's

understandable

why

we're

overprotective

of

our

community
.

Speaker 1
1:24

Yeah
,

absolutely
.

I

think

that's

something

that

I'm

learning

more

about

how

to

really

become

not

just

an

advocate

for

endometriosis

but

be

an

advocate

for

the

words

that

are

spoken

into

the

endometriosis

community

and

how

they

can
,

even

with

the

best

of

intentions
,

can

be

just

as

harmful
.

And

I

am

learning

a

lot

about

that
.

And

I

think

the

thing

that

having

knowing

people

who

you

trust

recommend

people
,

that's

huge

and

I

think

for

me

I

have
.

Again
,

I

didn't

really

know

anyone

or

anything
.

I

started

this

night

absolutely

knew

one

surgeon

that

did

endometriosis

surgery

and

that

was

my

surgeon
.

That

was

the

only

person

I

knew
.

I

didn't

know

any

other

doctors
.

I

didn't

know

any
.

I

knew

my

pelvic

floor

PT

and

that

was

the

other

clinician

that

I

had

met

that

knew

endometriosis

or

even

knew

the

word

endometriosis

and

what

it

entailed
.

So

for

me

it

was

very

much

so
.

Whom

was

recommended

to

me

through

other

people

that

I

trusted
,

and

I

think

that

it's

taken

a

little

bit

of

weight

off

my

shoulders

to

not

have

to

find

people

that

I

felt

like

I

trusted

as

much
.

But

it's

because

when

you

have

that

core

group

of

people

that

you

know

have

the

best

interest

for

the

community
,

saying

you

need

to

talk

to

this

person
.

You're

like
,

okay
,

I

understand

that

a

little

bit

more
,

but

getting

to

know

them

and

what

they

do

speak

into

and

what

they

have

their

expertise

in

makes

a

huge

difference
.

Because

you

hop

on

a

podcast

and

you're

like

so

what

do

you

want

to

talk

about

today
?

It's

not

going

to

fly
.

You

can't

just

pop

on

anytime

and

let's

shoot

the

buries

because

it

doesn't

work

that

way
.

It's

not

usually

going

to

go

very

well

in

the

conversation
.

And

so

I've

learned

a

ton

from

all

of

you
.

Speaker 1
3:12

Kim
,

I

remember

the

one

time

you

came

on
.

You're

like

you

can

ask

for

a

refund

when

they

didn't

give

service

to

where

it

was
.

Like

they

didn't
,

they

did

what

for

you
.

They

get

a

refund
.

And

I

was

like

I

never

even

thought

about

that
.

Speaker 1
3:24

And

that

has

been

so

informative

and

talking

to

all

these

different

advocates

and

all

these

different

people

is

that

I

have

learned

and

grown

in

my

own

health

journey

in

in

vitriosis
,

and

so

one

of

the

things

that

I've

learned

the

most

is

how

strong

the

community

is

and

how

much

we

need

more

community
.

But

also

within

that

community
,

I

have

grown

to

have

better

expectations

for

my

practitioners
.

I've

learned

that

it

is

not

just

endometriosis

causing

needs

pain

factors
.

I've

learned

hormones

are

my

worst

enemy

right

now
.

There's

other

enemies

at

play

here
.

It's

not

just

the

endometriosis
,

although

that

is

what

drove

a

lot

of

that

hormone

imbalance

for

me
.

So
,

amy
,

what

is

something

that

you

from

doing
,

all

the

podcasts

that

you've

done

and

all

the

people

that

you've

had

on
,

what

are

some

ways

that

have

impacted

you

the

most

in

your

journey
?

What

are

some

things

that

you've

learned
?

Speaker 4
4:19

Well
,

you

know
,

kind

of

like

what

you

were

saying

is
.

Speaker 4
4:21

I

think

that

something

I've

really

learned

is
,

well
,

first

of

all
,

that

we're

all

individuals
,

right

Like

first

of

all

that
,

what

works

for

one

person

is

not

going

to

work

for

another

person
,

and

I

know

we

hear

that

a

lot

and

we

see

that

a

lot

on

social

media
.

Speaker 4
4:35

But

I

think

when

you're

having

a

platform
,

having

a

podcast
,

it's

like

really

being

cognizant

of

the

fact

that

what

has

helped

me

may

not

help

another

person
.

In

fact
,

it

might

harm

another

person
.

So

I

think

you

know
,

always

trying

to

educate

from

a

viewpoint

of

I'm

not

trying

to

make

any

decisions

for

you
,

I'm

not

trying

to

tell

you

what

to

do
.

All

I'm

trying

to

do

is

give

you

information
,

and

it's

never

going

to

be

all

the

information

right
,

because

I

don't

have

all

the

information

in

the

world
,

no

matter

how

knowledgeable

you

know

one

could

become
,

after

115

episodes

of

my

podcast
,

it

is

still

not

all

the

information

that

we

need

to

live

with

this

illness
.

So

I

think

you

know
,

whenever

I'm

advocating

educating
,

always

coming

at

it

from

this

information

is

to

guide

you
.

But

whatever

you

decide

is

the

best

decision

for

you

and

I

support

that

and

also

realizing

that

for

myself

right
.

Speaker 4
5:37

Like
,

sometimes

we're

going

to

make

decisions

that

other

people

don't
,

maybe

you

don't

think

are

the

best

decisions

for

us
,

right
?

But

we

all

have

to

make

our

decision

of

our

treatment
,

our

lifestyle
,

our

life
,

based

on

where

we

are

right

now

and

the

knowledge

that

we

have
.

So

I

think

that's

something

that's

just

in

general
,

with

advocacy
.

And

then

I

think

something

I've

just

been

learning
,

you

know
,

is

we're

doing

different

series
,

like

we

have

a

series

coming

up

in

2024

on

interstitial

cystitis
.

We

have

a

series

coming

up

on

pain
,

which

was
.

They

were

so

much

work

I

just

want

to

put

out

there
.

Speaker 1
6:11

Yes
.

Speaker 4
6:13

But

and

I

want

to

have

more

like

hormone

experts

on

to

talk

about

hormone

replacement

therapy

that's

something

that's

become

very

important

to

me

now

that

I'm

in

perimenopause

and

I've

had

lost

my

ovary

and

just

having

a

lot

of

like

symptoms

from

low

hormone

output
.

So

I

think

something

that

I'm

learning

and

I

it's

like

again

it's

like

you

know

it
,

but

I'm

really

learning

it

is

that

it

really

is

the

full

body

disease
.

Right
,

like

it

is

absolutely

a

full

body

disease

and

there's

so

many

different

reasons
,

so

many

different

pain

generators
,

there's

so

many

different

symptom

generators

and

like

even

I'm

five

years

post-ecision

and

I'm

still

frigging

out

reasons

for

why

I

have

certain

symptoms

right
,

Whether

that's

low

hormone

output

or

SIBO
,

or

a

tight

pelvic

floor
,

or

like

a

up-regulation

of

my

central

nervous

system
,

or

there's

just

every

year

it's

like

I

can

get

deeper

and

deeper

into

other

pain

generators
.

Speaker 4
7:13

Right

and

so

I

think

it's

just

constantly

having

that

present

is
.

It's

not

just

for

most

of

us
,

it's

not

just

endometriosis

and

that's

really

hard
.

That's

really

hard

because

it's

like

if

it

was

just

endometriosis
,

maybe

it

would

make

life

a

little

simpler
,

right
?

Right
,

because

it

wouldn't

be

like
,

okay
,

how

do

I

deal

with

endo
,

but

also

now
,

how

do

I

deal

with

like

all

the

endo

fallout
,

right
,

like

all

the

endo

dominoes
?

So

that's

something

I'm

really

committed

to

exploring

in

my

podcast

and

I

think

it's

something

that

I

just

keep

learning

more

and

more

about

the

different

co-conditions

that

people

have

had

in

conjunction

or

that

people

have

in

conjunction

with

their

endometriosis
,

and

how

complicated

it

can

be

to

really

improve

your

quality

of

life
.

It's

hard
.

Speaker 1
7:58

It

is

hard
.

Speaker 1
7:59

It's

really

it's

hard
,

it's

so

hard

it

can

be

consuming
.

Honestly
,

it

can

be

very

consuming

to

try

to

figure

that

out

and

I

think

for

everyone

it's

different

for

everyone

in

the

path

to

get

to

wellness

is

different

for

everyone
,

I

think
.

For

me
,

I

didn't

know

half

of

these

terms

when

I

started

and

that's

why

I'm

like

I'm

glad

I'm

learning

these
,

because

I

you

can't

speak

into

something

you

don't

know

and

that's
.

I

think

that

that

is
,

I'm

putting

pieces

together
.

As

I

go

with

my

journey

and

my

health

and

the

things

that

I'm

learning
.

I'm

like
,

oh

well
,

that

makes

more

sense

to

me

now
.

Oh
,

I

can

research

this

now

and

and

then

I

can

speak

into

the

space

a

little

bit

better

and

our

passion

drives

that

right
.

Speaker 1
8:49

The

things

that

interest

us

more

and

our

passions
,

the

things

that

we

didn't

know

previously
,

that

now

we're

like
,

oh
,

that

light

bulb

just

flipped
,

I'm

going

to

research

this

more

and

then

you

speak

into

it

resonates

different

with

different

people

at

that

point
.

And

so
,

but
,

kathleen
,

you've

just

started

your

podcast
.

Are

there

things

that

you've

taken

away

that

have

either

helped

in

your

journey

or

just

that

you

maybe

didn't

even

know

because

you've

been

doing

this

a

long

time

in

the

advocacy

sense
,

but

not

necessarily

in

the

podcast

sense

and

so

you're

so

kind

of

fresh
.

Is

there

anything

that

so

far

that

you've

like

gleaned

from

what

you've

been

doing
?

Speaker 3
9:26

I

think

it's

sort

of

echoing

everything

that

Amy

had

said

there

is

so

important

and

I

think

for

me

I

drew

on

the

experience

from

dealing

with

individual

queries

that

come

in

through

to

the

charities

and

on

the

helpline

that

I

would

have

volunteered

on

for

years
.

And

certainly

in

the

case

in

Ireland

where

it

can

be

very

practical

concerns
,

it

may

be

not

just

that

you're

unable

to

access

particular

treatment

or

particular

clinician

or

particular

type

of

busy

or

whatever

it

is
.

It

can

be

something

as

practical

as

are

there

any

supports

available
,

like

for

college

students
?

Speaker 3
10:03

or

are

there

any

financial

supports

available

or

write

up

as

to

where

it's
?

Like

you

know
,

a

lot

of

people

in

Ireland

wouldn't

know

about

pelvic

physio
.

We

don't

have

annual

gynecology

exams

either
.

There's

a

lot

of

things

that

are

different

in

this

country

in

our

healthcare

system

and

I

think

all

those

queries

over

the

years

have

sort

of

built

up

to

what

I

would

like

to

get

across

Empowering Advocacy for Endometriosis

Speaker 3
10:24

.

But

also

as

well

to

keep

an

in

mind

that

advocates

have

taken

a

bash

in

over

the

last

number

of

years

and

we're

always

being

seen

as

hammering

home

excision
.

We

do

this

and

we're

recommending

surgeons

and

all

that
.

Speaker 3
10:38

None

of

that's

true
.

We

know

that

as

advocates

we're

pumping

the

information

out

there

for

people

to

make

a

decision
,

and

I

have

people

come

to

me

looking

for

me

to

make

a

decision

for

them
.

I

can't

do

that
.

None

of

us

can

do

that
.

Speaker 3
10:50

All

we

can

do

is

give

people

the

tools

and

the

information

to

put

the

pieces

of

the

jigsaw

together
.

Speaker 3
10:55

We

can

certainly

guide

them

as

much

as

we

can
,

and

I

think

the

resources

and

guidance

thing

is

important
,

because

I

think

when

you

give

people

access

to

accurate

information

and

give

them

the

signposting

towards

further

people

to

speak

to

or

for

their

clinicians

to

look

at

or

for

their

services

to

dive

into
.

Speaker 3
11:16

They

can

make

those

decisions

themselves

when

they're

empowered

to

do

so
,

because
,

as

Kim

had

mentioned

earlier

on

as

well
,

that

we're

often

disempowered

when

we

sit

in

front

of

a

clinician
.

A

lot

of

us

have

suffered

trauma

and

that's

been

disbelieved

for

so

many

years

that

again

giving

somebody

that

piece

of

accurate

information

and

giving

them

the

signpost

to

go

on

and

learn

more
,

it's

so

empowering

again
,

and

I

think

that's

one

of

the

things

that

I

hope

to

get

through

in

the

podcast

not

just

a

case

of

practical

tips

and

tricks

on

how

to

survive

in

this

country

with

endometriosis
,

no

endometriosis

but

also

to

allow

them

the

tools

that

I

was

given

back

in

the

day
,

where

I

could

then

go

and

learn

and

develop

further

and

then

start

advocating

not

just

for

myself

but

for

everybody

around

me

as

well
.

I'm

hoping

that

I

can

get

that

across
.

Speaker 1
12:13

I

think

you

will
.

Just

in

the

last

10

minutes

or

was

it

30

seconds

of

speaking
,

I'm

like
,

oh

yeah
,

kathleen's

right
,

you're

so

wise

and

you're

so

well

spoken
.

I

think

you're

going

to

do

fabulous
.

You've

been

doing

it

for

so

long
.

I

mean

the

advocacy

part

of

it
.

You've

been

outspoken
.

Speaker 1
12:36

It's

not

that

you

haven't

been

speaking

about

endometriosis
.

It's

now

that

you're

making

it

in

a

version

that

streams

across

your

speakers

and

you've

done

a

beautiful

job

at

communicating

all

the

different

correlations

and

all

the

different

avenues

of

endometriosis

that

are

taken
.

I

think

it's

so

hard

to

beautifully

articulate

the

disease
.

That's

not

so

beautiful
,

and

I

think

that

you

do

that

so

very

well

and

have

for

a

long

time
,

and

I

think

that's

why

it

was

really

important

for

me

to

have

you

on

today
,

because

I've

gotten

a

lot

of

valuable

information

from

you

and

I

think

something

that

I

really

have

learned

is

that

the

international

piece

of

endometriosis

is

very

different

for

every

country
.

Speaker 1
13:26

And

I

didn't

really

I

mean
,

I

lived

in

a

bubble
,

if

I'm

being

honest
.

I

truly

was

like

this

little

bubble

of

this

little

girl

in

the

middle

of

the

United

States

and

Colorado
,

like

trying

to

speak

about

this

stuff
,

and

it

has

opened

my

mind

to

just

how

challenging

endometriosis

is

to

navigate

in

other

countries

and

I'm

realizing

sometimes

as

hard

as

it

is

to

navigate

here

in

the

US
.

Other

countries

is

almost

more

challenging

in

some

ways
,

because

they

have

the

private

healthcare

and

then

they've

got

the

public

healthcare

and

that's

something

that

we

don't

necessarily

have

here
.

I

mean
,

we

definitely

have
,

like
,

the

Medicare

and

things

like

that
,

but

it's

different
,

right
?

It's

a

different

take

altogether
.

So

I

just

the

way

that

you

have

navigated
,

speaking

about

endometriosis
,

you're

gonna

do

amazing

things

in

your

podcast

and

I'm

excited

to

continue

listening

to

that
.

Plus
,

you

have

the

best

accent

out

of

anyone

I

know
.

So

there's

that
,

thank

you
.

Speaker 3
14:26

I

need

to

learn

to

speak

slower

than

I

think
.

That's

the

only

thing
.

Speaker 1
14:30

Why

Just

speed

it

up
,

girl
?

We

got

things

to

cover

here
,

we

got

things

to

go
.

So

I

have

had

so

many

people

say

Kimmether

man
,

I

learned

so

much

from

Kimmether

when

she

was

on

your

podcast
.

She's

so

well

spoken

and

she

doesn't

give

herself

enough

grace
.

That's

me

speaking

right

there
.

That

was

me

in

that

moment

because

you

are

so

well

spoken
.

But

what

is

something

that

you

have

taken

away

from

doing

the

podcast

for

your

own

journey
?

Speaker 2
15:03

It

definitely

has

challenged

me

to

approach

evidence-based

research

quite

differently

than

I've

had

professionally

and

just

historically
,

endometriosis

has

been

almost

like

a

twilight

zone

for

me

when

it

comes

to

research
.

Speaker 2
15:21

I

worked

in

research

for

15

years

before

becoming

a

nurse

practitioner

and

there's

a

very

standard

approach

to

research
.

Speaker 2
15:31

There's

a

typical

way

to

look

at

the

literature

and

then

you

draw

conclusions

based

off

of

the

best

evidence

available
,

and

endometriosis

was

totally

different
.

Speaker 2
15:43

So

part

of

the

podcast

and

choosing

to

do

a

podcast

that

will

touch

on

the

topic

really

made

me

have

to

kind

of

turn

on

his

head

how

I

would

typically

just

read

research

articles

and

basically

say
,

okay
,

this

is

the

best

of

what's

available
.

So

this

must

be

accurate

and

this

must

be

appropriate

to

be

able

to

share

and

with

this

disease
,

you

can

have

incorrect

information

from

even

your

most

reputable

sources

and

I

just

had

never

encountered

that

before
.

So

when

we

chose

to

do

the

podcast

even

though

we're

not

doing

a

lot

of

like

trying

really

hard

not

to

be

a

heavily

scholarship

focused

podcast

we

are

going

to

bring

up

these

conditions

and

their

associated

conditions

and

we

want

to

ensure

accuracy
.

So

I

take

it

very

seriously

how

I'm

analyzing

research

in

this

area

and

ensuring

that

I'm

including

a

wide

variety

of

voices

in

that
.

Diversity in the Podcast Space

Speaker 2
16:48

Another

thing
,

too
,

that

I've

learned
,

which

definitely

gives

me

fire

to

keep

going
,

is

the

importance

and

what

was

also

a

need

for

more

BIPOC

in

this

space

Just

people

of

color

speaking

into

this

space
.

Speaker 2
17:05

It

was

something

that

I

was

looking

for

and

just

couldn't

find

a

lot

of

that
,

especially

within

the

podcast

space
,

and

it

has

been

probably

one

of

the

main

things

that

people

have

shared

as

being

particularly

important

for

them

to

have

that

diversity

of

voices

in

this

space
,

because

there

are

a

lot

of

Anthemetriosis

podcasts

out

there

and

I

think

they

all

serve

their

role

in

different

ways

and

they

all

have

their

mission

and

their

approach

and

for

us
,

we

are

choosing

to

be

really

intentional

about

speaking

about

the

black

experience

Brandon

as

a

black

man
,

me

as

a

black

woman

and

not

shying

away

from

sharing

the

nuances

that

come

with

that
.

Speaker 2
17:53

That's

another

transparency

area

that

we

always

kind

of

struggle

with
.

There's

just

how

transparent

to

be

in

that

area

and

how

to

be

mindful

and

responsible

about

that
.

But

I'm

slowly

but

surely

learning

how

to

do

that

in

an

effective

manner

and

in

a

way

that's

honoring
,

of

course
,

for

other

people

of

color
.

That

helps

them

be

seen

as

well
.

Speaker 2
18:16

But

also

delivering

information

in

a

way

that

is

still

relatable

and

worth

listening

to

for

anyone
.

So

if

I'm

speaking

about

my

experience
,

that

is

maybe

considered

something

unique
,

to

like

the

experience

of

a

black

woman

in

this

Anthemetriosis

space
.

I

think

it's

remarkably

important

for

my

white

or

not

like

those

who

do

not

identify

as

people

of

color

to

hear

those

stories

and

to

know

about

that

perspective

and

to

be

curious

about

it
.

So

we

try

to

incorporate

that

and

we

don't

even

have

to

be

remarkably

intentional
,

because

as

long

as

we're

being

our

authentic

selves

is

going

to

come

out
,

and

in

hopes

that

that

also

just

creates

curiosity

for

people

too
.

But

yeah
,

I

didn't

think

much

about

that

when

we

started

the

podcast
.

Speaker 2
19:14

We

just

was

like

we'll

just

be

a

couple

that

is

gonna

say

we

don't

know

what

we're

doing
,

we're

navigating

this

thing
,

but

let's

all

do

it

together
.

We

didn't

really

think

about

the

responsibility

but
,

also

the

honor

of

really

being

able

to

help

bring

some

diversity

into

the

space
,

so

it's

something

we

take

very

seriously

and

it's

definitely

one

of

the

things

that

keeps

us

going

with

it

too
.

Speaker 1
19:43

Yeah
,

there's

a

lot

to

learn

about

that
.

I

feel

like

I

started

the

same

way

of

like
,

well
,

I'm

just

gonna

be

myself
,

I'm

gonna

tell

everyone
,

but

you

do

have

to

be

so

aware

of

those

things
.

And

I

look

back

now

and

I'm

like

I

really

learned

a

lot

in

every

episode

that

I

recorded
,

because

I

wasn't

aware

of

a

lot

of

this

stuff

Prior

to

recording
.

Again
,

I

lived

in

that

bubble

and

I'm

very

good

at

my

bubble
,

but

beyond

that

bubble
,

I

needed

to

be

able

to

pop

the

bubble
.

You

know

what

I

mean
.

Like

I

just

had

to
.

Speaker 1
20:14

I

had

to

be

okay
,

being

uncomfortable
,

and

I

think

that

was

something

that

I

learned

Very

early

on
.

Well
,

to

be

fair
,

I

was

very

uncomfortable
,

even

hearing

myself

in

the

microphone

for

the

first

time
.

I

don't

know

if

you

all

were

very

uncomfortable

with

that
,

but

I

was

very

uncomfortable

hearing

my

own

voice
.

I

was
.

I

still

am

not

super

comfortable

editing

myself

because

I

don't

like

the

sound

of

my

voice
.

No

one

does

like
,

so

I

tell

everyone

that

comes

on

like

you

will

not

like

the

sound

of

your

voice
,

just

gonna

throw

that

out

there
,

but

to

everyone

else

it's

fine
,

it'll

be

fine
,

you

know
,

but

it

was

so

uncomfortable

for

me

to

step

and

speak

into

the

microphone

and

the

first

time

I

did
.

I

don't

know

if

you

guys

will

remember

this
,

but

you

do

remember

that

Saturday

night

live

skit

where

they

were

talking

about

sweaty

balls
.

Speaker 3
20:59

They're

made

from

a

secret

sweaty

family

recipe
.

Speaker 1
21:03

Do

you

remember

that

Kimethers

over

here

laughing
?

That's

what

we

had

to

do

to

break

the

mold

of

like

making

it

funny

and

getting

used

to

like

that

sound
,

and

so

I

think

like

Moving

from

this

step

of

getting

comfortable

hearing

ourselves

to

then

being

comfortable

being

uncomfortable
,

talking

about

topics

that

aren't

really

that

comfortable

to

talk

about

and

being

vulnerable
,

has

been

the

most

impactful

for

me
,

and

I

think

that

if

we

can

continue

doing

that

with

valuable

resources

that

we

have
,

I

think

the

podcasting

world

with

Indymetriosis

is

just

gonna

bloom

even

more

so
.

And

the

thing

that

I

have

also

learned

and

I

am

shocked

by

all

the

time

is

just

how

much

support

we

get

from

practitioners

and

people

in

the

Indymetriosis

community

willing

to

come

on

and

talk

about

their

expertise
.

That's

something

I

did

not

see

coming
.

I

don't

know

if

you

all

experienced

that
.

I

know

I'm

sure
,

kathleen
,

you've

met

a

lot

of

these

people

as

well
,

so

it

was

probably

a

little

bit

easier
,

but

I

didn't

know

anyone
.

Expanding Perspectives on Endometriosis

Speaker 2
22:13

It's

funny

because

for

me

I

it's

kind

of

been

the

opposite

only

because

I

am

really

trying

hard

to

bring

in

Industries

and

fields

outside

of

Indymetriosis

into

this

Indymetriosis

space
.

So

most

of

the

time

it's

me

as

part

of
,

like
,

getting

to

know

the

person

is
.

So

this

is

what

Indymetriosis

is
.

Like
,

you

know
,

like

because

they

most

they

they're

not

in

this

space

at

all
,

are

they
?

You

know

some
,

but

they're

not

in

the

thick

of

it
,

like

with

like

they're
,

they're

not
.

They

haven't

been

in

in

this

for

eight
,

for

years

and

decades

because

we're

trying

to

pull

in

people

who

are

like

relationship

counselors

or

sets
,

therapists

or

individuals

who

are

supporting

people

dealing

with

infertility
,

but

not

just

specifically

working

in

Indymetriosis
.

Speaker 2
23:09

So

I

Definitely

think

that

you

know

there

are

people

there
,

they're

willing
,

but

I

feel

like

I'm

Having

to

kind

of

pull

them

into

this

Indymetriosis

Space

and

then

tell

them

why

their

voice

would

be

very

important

in

this

space
,

like

why

we

need

to

hear

from

you

and

because

we

can't

just

keep

talking

about

and

though

with

people

who

already

know

this

information
,

I

mean

to

bring

in

other

professionals
.

It's

also

that

why

I

am

so

excited

about

Amy's

Spanish

podcast
.

Speaker 2
23:43

And

her

plans

to

bring

in
,

like

menopause

specialist
,

hormone

specialist
,

like

nutritionists
,

like

I'm

like
,

yes
,

yes
,

like
,

because
,

yes
,

we

have

fantastic

Indymetriosis

specialists

who

are

so

kind

and

are

always

so

willing

to

Speak

with

us

so

that

they

can

help

get

that

education

out

there
.

But

I

came

into

this

community

really

and

it

didn't

take

me

long

to

notice

that

it

was

almost

a

bubble

a

bit
,

and

I

would

love

to

just

start

poking

holes

in

that

bubble

and

bring

bringing

in

those

those

experts

and

and

people

who

can

speak

into

this

space

for

us
,

because

we're

still

100%

human
.

People

dealing

with

many

other

things

also

Just

endo
,

like

trying

to

keep

our

marriage

afloat

right
,

are

Trying

to

support

our
,

our

partner
,

because

but

but

we're

sick

at

the

same

time
,

you

know
.

So

I

love

that

there

are

the

endo

clinicians
,

are

that

way
,

but

it's

a

little

bit

different

for

the

ones

who

are

not

in

this
,

in

this

space
.

They're

not

so

willing

because

they

just

are

uncomfortable

Jumping

into

into

this

new

arena
.

Speaker 1
24:52

Yeah
,

I've

experienced

that

I
,

you

know

I've

had

a

couple

people

on

talking

about

their

own

areas

of

expertise

that

aren't

actually

part

of

endo

but

maybe

correlate

in

some

way

or

another
,

whether

it

be

because

of

you

know
,

eds

or

all

of

those

kind

of

play

a

part
,

right
,

like

it's

not

necessarily

endo

specific
,

but

they

do

play

a

part
.

But

I

will

say

that

there

have

been

times

that

people

have

been

like

I

don't

really

know

if

this

is

an

endometriosis

type

Podcast
.

I'm

like

well
,

it's

actually

more

of

like

a

whole

life

podcast

because

we're

trying

to

navigate

of

a

chronic

illness

that

Involves

our

mental

health
,

our

finances
.

It

involves

our
,

our

relationships

and

our

work

life
.

And

how

do
,

how

do

we

manage

it
?

Is

it

okay

for

an

employer

to

do

this
?

Is

it

not

okay

for

an

employer

to

do

this
?

How

do

we
?

How

do

we

ask

for

time

off

when

we

can't

function
?

Things

like

that

that

we

don't

always

think

about
.

Speaker 1
25:47

I

get

very

clinical

Sometimes

and

that's

my

brain

wanting

to

learn

more

about

the

disease

itself
.

But

really

I

think

we

have

to

Step

back

and

say
,

okay
,

we

really

do

need

to

learn

more

about

every

facet

of

everything

that

could

involve

us

in

life
.

It

may

not

be

for

everyone
,

but

if

we

are

experiencing

something

and

if

we

are

wanting

more

information

on

something
,

chances

are

other

people

in

the

community

are

as

well
,

and

that's

something

that

I

Strongly

feel

like
.

I'm

learning

and

growing

in

that

and

I'm

doing
.

I

want

to

do

more

of

that
.

That

is

a

responsibility

that

I

want

to

take

on

going

forward

within

the

endo

battery

side

of

Navigating
,

really

living

up

to

that
.

12

spoons
,

let's

fuel
,

let's

recharge

your

battery
,

in

In

your

finances
,

let's

recharge

your

battery
.

And

how

do

you

manage

your

time

effectively

when

your

brain

fog

is

taking

over
?

I

don't

know
.

But

let's

learn
,

you

know
,

and

I

think

that's

something

that

will

be

beneficial

for

a

lot

of

people
.

But

we

all

have
.

Speaker 1
26:49

The

thing

that

I

love

about

having

all

of

you

on

today

is

the

fact

that

you

each

have

a

different

dynamic

on

your

podcast

and

you

Lend

your

voice

differently
,

and

I

think

that's

why

I

wanted

to

highlight

these

podcasts

today

is

because

they

are

different

and

you

can

get

information

from

any

of

these

podcasts

and

it

will

be

received

and

it'll

be

brought

to

you

differently
,

and

I

think

that

that

is

okay

and

you

will

learn

something

from

each

of

us
,

I'm

sure
.

But

I

really

think

that

the

more

that

we

spread

awareness

of

other

advocates

and

other

people

speaking

about

endometriosis

and

other

life

challenges
,

the

better

the

whole

community

will

be

in

the

support

that

we

can

give

to

one

another
.

And

I

just

and

that's

the

reason

why

I

wanted

to

have

all

these

lovely

ladies

on

today

is

because
,

yes
,

we

all

have

a

podcast
,

but

we're

not

in

competition
.

We

are

really

feeling

a

cup

of

information
,

but

also

we

are

fueling

a

cup

of

just

humanity

in

what

we're

doing

and

in

bringing

the

humanity

to

this

chronic

illness
.

I'm

excited

to

hear

where

we're

all

going

collectively

with

our

podcast
,

because

I

think

that

a

lot

of

really

great

things

are

happening

with

all

of

us
.

Speaker 1
28:07

I

know
,

kathleen
,

you

just

started
.

What

are

we

going

to

see

from

you

next
?

Speaker 3
28:11

Well
,

I

hope

that

I

can

sort

of

build

on

the

shoulders

of

everybody

who's

come

before

me

and

what

a

great

team

we

have

here

and

such

great

inspiration
,

and

I

think

you

know
,

just

echoing

back

what

everybody

said
,

there's

so

much

room

for

different

voices
.

Speaker 3
28:26

You

know
,

I

need

to

make

sure

that

I

include

all

the

marginalized

communities

within

Ireland
.

I

need

to

make

sure

that

I

include

all

the

topics

that

are

relevant

within

Ireland

but

are

also

relevant

worldwide

as

well
.

Certainly
,

from

the

queries

over

the

years
,

the

majority

of

people

don't

really

care

about

the

theories

of

endometriosis
.

They

don't

really

care

for

whether

it's

caused

by

one

thing

or

another
.

What

they

usually

need

in

that

moment

of

time

is

a

bit

of

comfort
,

somebody

to

listen
,

somebody

to

bring

back

that

focus

to

them

again

and
,

I

think
,

allowing

them

that

sort

of

space

to

take

on

small

bits

of

information

at

a

time
,

be

that

how

to

book

a

pelvic

fizzy

appointment

or

how

to

find

a

dietician

or

how

to

find

a

GP

to

actually

listen

to

you
.

So

I

think
,

using

the
,

you

know
,

inspiration

from

everybody

and

making

sure

that

we

don't

keep

this

a

very

insular

and

parochial

community
,

we

need

to

expand

it
,

we

need

to

blow

it

wide

open
.

Speaker 3
29:22

You

know
,

I

should

be

able

to

listen

to

any

of

the

guys

here

and

sort

of

go

yeah
,

that's

relevant

to

my

life

here

in

Ireland

and

you

should

be

able

to

listen

to

mine

and

say
,

yeah
,

I've

taken

something

away

from

that
.

The

social

care

system

might

be

different
,

but

it's

given

me

an

idea

to

see

what

resources

might

be

available

in

my

county

or

in

my

country
.

So

I

think
,

even

though

we

are

a

very

tight

community
,

I

do

think

we

risk

becoming

very

insular
,

and

I

think

the

more

external

factors

we

can

bring

into

that
,

the

better
,

and

be

that

through

variability

within

the

populations

that

we

speak

to
,

variability

in

the

professionals

that

we

speak

to
,

and

variability

again

in

the

sort

of

patient

community
,

if

you

want

to

describe

it

that

way

as

well

too
.

Everybody's

got

a

very

individual

story

and

a

very

individual

you

know

path

to

treatment

and

a

very

individual

sort

of

outcome

as

well

too
.

So

there's

your

room

for

absolutely

everybody
.

So

I'm

hoping

that

I

can

bring

that
.

Speaker 1
30:17

I

think

you

will
.

I

think

you

will
.

Amy
,

you're

already

doing

your

podcast

episodes
,

but

what

else

is

coming

along

for

you
?

Because

you've

got

some

really

good

stuff

coming
.

I

know

you

do
,

I

just

know

you

do
.

Speaker 4
30:32

Well
,

first

of

all
,

I

think

I'll

be

podcasting

for

the

next

like

10

years

because

I

absolutely

love

it
,

even

though

it

is

so

much

hard

work

and

I

really

just

do

want

to

put

that

out

there

that

it

is

hard

work

to

have

a
.

Speaker 4
30:43

You

know
.

You

know

it's

hard

work

to

have

the

podcast
,

not

only

to

find

the

guests
,

to

schedule

the

guests
,

to

learn

about

the

guests
,

to

make

the

questions
,

to

be

there
,

and

then

you

know

you

don't

feel

good
,

then

you're
.

You

know

it's

a

lot

of

spoons
,

a

lot

of

work
,

but

I

just

feel

like

there's

so

many

topics

too
.

I've

already

done

115

episodes

and

I

have

a

hundred

like

I

literally

have

another

115

lined

up
.

You

know
,

like

I

have

a

whole

list

of

like

people

that

I

want

to

come

on

in

2024

and

then

2025
.

And

you

want

them

all

to

come

on

at

once
.

But

that's

not

possible
.

You

know

you

can

only

have

I

don't

know

25
,

30

episodes

a

year
.

So

got

to

speak

to

face

them

out
.

But

there's

just

so

much

to

talk

about
.

You

know
,

and

it's

what

we're

saying
,

there's

just

there's

so

much

to

talk

Podcast Plans and Priorities

Speaker 4
31:26

about
.

I'm

really

branching

off

into

co-conditions
.

I've

just

been

doing

a

whole

series

on

disability
.

It's

still

going

on
.

It's

like

an

eight-part

series

about

identifying

as

disabled

or

dynamically

disabled
,

asking

for

accommodation

at

work
,

like

finding

the

best

way

to

do

it
,

like

finding

the

confidence

to

say

like

I'm

disabled

and

I

identify

as

disabled
,

if

that's

what

a

person

chooses

to

identify
,

as

you

know
.

So

I

think

there's

so

many

like

offshoots

to

go

down
.

I

really

want

to

go

down

the

whole

hormone

replacement

therapy
,

not

just

for

perimenopause
,

but

also

because

we

have

so

many

people

that

go

into

surgical

menopause

or

even
,

like

me
,

I
,

you

know
,

I'm

not

in

surgical

menopause
,

but

by

losing

an

ovary

it

tanked

my

hormones

and

I

was

not

prepared

for

that
.

I

was

not

prepared

for

how

to

find

a

doctor
,

for

the

symptoms

I

would

encounter
,

and

that

delayed
,

you

know
,

that

caused

me

suffering

and

that

delayed

me

getting

the

treatment

that

I

need
,

because

I

just

had

no

clue

about

it
.

Speaker 4
32:23

So

lots

of

different

things

I

want

to

explore

on

my

podcast
.

Lots

of

different

world

voices
.

I

have

a

World

Care

series

where

I'm

interviewing

people

from

different

countries
.

You

know
,

people

from

Kenya
,

nigeria
,

india
,

jamaica
,

bolivia
,

bringing

on

voices

from

different

countries

where

the

care

and

the

social

and

cultural

barriers

are

different

from

you

know

what

I've

experienced

and

hearing

those

voices
.

And

then

have

my

Spanish

podcast

coming

out
,

yes
,

which

I'm

just

so

thrilled

about
,

and

I

feel

like

I've

taken

like

everything

that

I've

learned

in

these

five

years

from

the

English

podcast

and

I've

you

know

I'm

making

a

really

great

podcast

in

Spanish
.

Of

course
,

again
,

it's

not

perfect

and

it's

not

going

to

be

the

best

podcast

in

the

world
,

but

I

try

to

hit

a

lot

of

topics
,

both

to

do

with

Endo

co-conditions

and

patient

voices
,

and

have

a

lot

of

different

representation

from

Spanish-speaking

countries
,

lots

of

different

guests

from

lots

of

you

know
,

over

a

dozen

countries
.

I

feel

really

excited

about

that
.

Speaker 4
33:25

And

then

my

audiobook

is

coming

out

in

March

2024
.

From

my

actual

book

that

I

wrote
,

which

is

Finding

a

Piece

of

the

Devastating

Disease
.

So

I'm

here

to

stay
.

You

know

I'm

in

the

spoons

every

day

trying

to
.

Sometimes

there's

no

motivation
,

so

you

just

watch

TV

and

you're

like

I

think

I'll

be

motivated

tomorrow

and

just

yeah
,

working

with

the

spoons

the

best

you

can
.

Speaker 1
33:49

Absolutely

so
.

True
,

I

know

that
,

kim
,

with

your
,

you've

experienced

that

too

of

like

trying

to

do

the

podcast

and

try

to

work
,

and

Brandon's

working
,

but

what's

coming

up

for

you

guys
,

because

you're

navigating

a

lot

of

schedules

as

well
.

But

I

know

that

you

have

great

things

coming

up
.

We

do
.

Speaker 2
34:07

And

you

know
,

we

basically

have

decided

that

we're

just

going

to

scale

our

vision

depending

on

just

how

our

demands

are

in

any

particular

season

of

life
,

and

that

way

we

don't

get

discouraged

if

things

have

to

shift

or

if

things

have

to

pause
,

like

we

really

are

a

perfect

match
,

because

I'm

the

project

management

minded

person
,

brandon

is

the

creative
,

and

the

combo

basically

provides

creativity

within

boundaries
.

Yeah
,

so

so

we

have
,

you

know
,

very

clear

vision

of

remaining

couple

centered
,

no

matter

what
,

empowering

them

to

make

informed

decisions

for

themselves

and

their

families
.

So

everything

that

we

do

will

pour

out

of

that

space
.

We're

excited

to

portray

the

diversity

of

couples

who

are

dealing

with

chronic

conditions
,

partners
,

spouses
,

parents

of

young

children
,

older

children
,

people

without

children

Just

as

much

diversity

as

we

can

display
.

We

want

to

really

try

to

honor

that

and

ensure

that

as

many

voices

are

heard

from
,

because

every

single

couple

has

something

amazing

to

share
,

even

if

it's

coming

out

of

hardship
.

We've

been

able

to

just

learn

so

much
,

so

we

want

to

continue

with

that
.

And

then
,

with

professionals
,

we're

going

to

continue

to

very

meticulously

choose

professionals

who

are

committed

to

offering

their

expertise

that's

focused

on

improving

the

quality

of

life
,

particularly

for

the

relationship

unit
.

We're

very

big

on

that

being

the

focus
.

We

try

to

individually

highlight

the

importance

of

everyone

in

the

relationship
.

You

know
,

having

the

quality

of

life

prioritize
,

but

then

also

particularly

like

trying

to

offer

expertise

that

supports

the

unit

as

a

whole
.

And

then
,

with

us

being

still

so

new

at

this
,

we

also

are

kind

of

keeping

things

flexible

for

that

and

in

that

regard
,

we

really

try

to

take

in

the

feedback

that

we

receive

from

other

couples
,

from

our

listeners
,

and

we

do

take

it

seriously
.

I

definitely

know

when

feedback

is

something

that

we

want

to

consider

versus

something

that

doesn't

align

with

our

mission

and

our

ethics

and

our

pillars

of

how

we

wish

to

approach

the

podcast
.

But

for

those

who

do

provide

really

great

feedback
,

we

try

to

incorporate

that

into

the

long

term

plan
.

So

we

hope

to

one

day

offer

a

couple's

retreat
.

Speaker 2
36:37

Something

also

that's

been

popping

up

is

a

couple's

focused

support

group
.

So

we're

just

going

to

put

them

in

our

you

know
,

put

them

on

our

vision

board

and

try

to

figure

out

okay
,

are

these

things

that

we

can

incorporate

and

scale

in

a

way

that

remains

feasible

for

us

and

ensure

that
,

even

though

this

is

hard

work
,

that

we

continue

at

a

pace

that

keeps

us

still

loving

it
.

So

that's

why

we're

okay
.

If

perhaps
,

we

only

get

one

podcast

out

in

a

month
.

We

just

say

you

know

what
,

we

have

to

scale

it

to

meet

our

needs

in

those

seasons

and

that's

okay
.

Speaker 2
37:14

So

the

one

thing

that

we

will

not

be

doing

is

forcing

ourselves

to

crank

out

quantity

just

to

get

it

out
.

We

can

sometimes

feel

pressured

to

do

that

as

podcasters

and

that's

something

that

we

committed

early

on

to

not

make

a

focus

If

it

doesn't

organically

feel

like

something

that

we

need

to

talk

about
,

sit

down

and

record
.

No
,

and

honestly
,

people

have

been

really

supportive

of

anything

that

we

can

come

out

and

share
.

So

that's

also

been

encouraging

to

remind

me

that

it's

okay

to

pace

myself

Because

ultimately
,

I'm

going

to

make

myself

available

not

only

to

our

listeners

but

to

my

patients
,

to

my

husband
,

to

my

dog
,

to

my

family
.

I

want

to

be

here

for

the

long

haul
.

So

that

means

really

prioritizing

our

health

book

my

health

as

the

one

with

the

chronic

illness
,

his

health

as

the

one

who

is

often

caring

for

the

person

with

chronic

illness
,

and

then

the

health

of

our

marriage

itself

too
.

Speaker 1
38:17

So

oh
,

it's

so

good
,

it's

so

good
.

I

think

you

made

a

valid

point
.

We

just

need

to

give

ourselves

grace
.

And

you

know
,

each

of

you

have

put

so

much

work

into

your

podcast
.

Speaker 1
38:30

I

don't

I

didn't

realize

how

much

work

would

be

entailed

into

creating

a

podcast
.

I

thought

it

was

going

to

be

like

a

couple

days

a

month
,

but

it's

like

how

green

I

was
,

I

was

like

I

legitimately

was

like
,

oh
,

it's

going

to

be

a

couple

days

a

month
,

that's

fine
,

I

don't

have

time

for

that
.

It's

not
.

It's

almost

like

a

40

hour

work

week
,

sometimes

or

more
.

And

there's

been

times

that

I've

had

to

have

boundaries

and

my

husband's

had

to

put

boundaries

in

place

because

I'm

not

good

at

boundaries

when

it

comes

to

that

passion

that

drives

us
,

and

so

he's

like

you

got

to

step

away

from

the

mic

for

a

minute
,

you

got

to

step

away

from

talking

endometriosis

for

a

second

and

you've

got

to

say

I

don't

want

to

hear

endometriosis

for

24

hours

in

this

household
.

And

it

is

a

real

struggle

to

do

that
.

It's

a

lot

of

work

and

a

lot

goes

into

it
,

but

it's

worth

it
.

And

it's

so

true

that

each

of

us

have

a

voice
.

Speaker 1
39:17

But

you

all

have

been

so

impactful

in

my

journey

with

endometriosis
,

as

well

as

being

a

podcaster
,

and

so

for

that

I

just

want

to

say

thank

you
.

Gratitude and Support in Podcasting Journey

Speaker 1
39:27

Thank

you

all

for

being

who

you

are

but

being

the

support

that

I

didn't

know

I

needed

in

this

first

year

of

podcasting
,

and

I

know

that
,

moving

forward

into

my

next

year

of

doing

it

because

I'm

not

stopping

yet

my

next

year

of

doing

it

that

I

know

that

this

community

will

rally

around

me

when

I'm

not

feeling

my

best

or

when

my

ADHD

I'm

sorry

all

of

you

that

have

had

to

experience

is

that

my

ADHD

takes

over

and

I'm

having

a

hard

time

focusing
,

or

whatever

the

case

is
.

Speaker 1
39:55

You

all

have

been

so

instrumental

in

this

journey

up

into

this

time
,

and

I

know

that
,

moving

forward
,

you'll

continue

just

with

what

you're

doing
,

but

also

in

supporting

me

as

a

human
,

not

just

a

podcaster
.

So

I

just

want

to

say

thank

you

from

the

bottom

of

my

heart
,

and

I'm

so

excited

to

see

where

this

year

goes

for

all

of

you
.

You

have

a

lot

of

big

things

going

on
,

and

I'm

excited

to

carry

on

the

mission

of

advocacy

for

those

dealing

with

chronic

illnesses

in

general

and

those

dealing

with

life
,

for

being

honest
.

So

thank

you

for

being

a

spoon

that

gives

to

me
.

Thank

you

for

recharging

me

and

until

next

time
.

Everyone

remember

that

these

advocates

continue

advocating

for

you
,

but

you

advocate

for

yourself

and

for

those

that

you

love
.

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