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As the year winds down and the holiday season approaches, take a moment to recharge with our Endo Year Reflection series. This special segment looks back on the most impactful moments and insights of the year, offering a deep dive into the resilience, grit, and unwavering determination of endometriosis advocates. In Episode 78, I sit down with Casey Berna, a patient, advocate, and licensed social worker, who shares powerful perspectives on the mental health challenges faced by those living with endo and the overlooked role of support systems in this journey.

In Episodes 79 and 80, I chat with Jen Moore, a dedicated advocate from the UK, about the barriers to care, the shocking lack of medical curiosity around endometriosis, and her inspiring project, They Said What. These conversations highlight the urgent need for better education, diagnosis, and treatment for endometriosis and other chronic illnesses.

Join us for these heartfelt discussions and gain insight from two of the most passionate voices in the endometriosis community. Subscribe now and don’t miss the next installment of our Endo Year Reflection series, where we continue to push for change and better care for those living with chronic illness.

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Speaker 1
0:02

Welcome

to

EndoBattery
,

where

I

share

my

journey

with

endometriosis

and

chronic

illness
,

while

learning

and

growing

along

the

way
.

This

podcast

is

not

a

substitute

for

medical

advice
,

but

a

supportive

space

to

provide

community

and

valuable

information
,

so

you

never

have

to

face

this

journey

alone
.

We

embrace

a

range

of

perspectives

that

may

not

always

align

with

our

own
.

Believing

that

open

dialogue

helps

us

grow

and

gain

new

tools

always

align

with

our

own
.

Believing

that

open

dialogue

helps

us

grow

and

gain

new

tools
.

Join

me

as

I

share

stories

of

strength
,

resilience

and

hope
,

from

personal

experiences

to

expert

insights
.

I'm

your

host
,

alana
,

and

this

is

IndoBattery

charging

our

lives

when

endometriosis

drains

us
.

Welcome

back

to

IndoBattery
.

Grab

your

cup

of

coffee

or

your

cup

of

tea

and

join

me

at

the

table
.

Speaker 1
0:45

This

year

is

wrapping

up

fast

and

Christmas

is

right

around

the

corner
.

Whether

you're

soaking

up

the

holiday

joy

or

racing

through

a

never-ending

list

of

last-minute

to-dos
,

I'm

here

to

offer

you

a

quick

recharge

With

the

EndoYear

Reflection

Series
.

This

special

segment

takes

a

look

back

at

some

of

the

most

impactful

moments

and

profound

insights

from

the

past

year
,

those

moments

that

make

you

pause

and

think

wow
,

that

hit

home
.

What

never

fails

to

inspire

me

is

the

resilience
,

grit

and

unwavering

determination

of

advocates
.

In

episode

78
,

I

sat

down

with

Casey

Berna
,

an

incredible

individual

who

wears

many

hats

patient

advocate

and

licensed

social

worker
.

Casey

is

dedicated

to

guiding

others

through

the

ever-changing

journey

of

endometriosis

care
.

To

say

this

journey

is

difficult

is

an

understatement
.

One

key

point

Casey

brought

up

is

the

staggering

mental

health

challenges

faced

by

those

living

with

endo
.

For

those

of

us

walking

this

path
,

it's

not

surprising
,

but

the

severity

might

be
.

Here's

a

clip

that

truly

captures

her

perspective
.

Speaker 2
1:48

You

know

patients

who

are

feeling

a

lot

of

anxiety
.

I

think

I

forget

what

the

statistic

is
,

but

a

lot

of

patients

with

endometriosis

experience

anxiety
,

depression

and

also

sometimes

suicide

ideations
.

So

I

think

that's

also

a

really

big

challenge

for

patients

is

having

those

challenges

like

on

top

of

chronic

pain
,

although

they're

often

like

woven

together

and

interconnected
.

You

know
,

finding

them

other

multidisciplinary

care

is

really

hard
,

like

finding

them

a

pelvic

floor

therapist

in

town

who

like

understands
.

So

I

mean
,

I

think

that's

just

like

some

of

the

challenges

that

a

lot

of

patients

that

I

see

face

for

sure
.

Speaker 1
2:28

As

Casey

highlights
,

the

challenges

don't

end

with

the

patients
.

Living

with

endo

is

a

shared

experience
,

and

support

systems

whether

they're

partners
,

family

members

or

friends

often

bear

a

significant

emotional

load
.

They're

not

just

bystanders
,

they're

co-advocates

navigating

this

uphill

battle

alongside

us
,

yet

their

role

is

often

overlooked
.

Casey's

perspective

on

this

left

me

reflecting

deeply
.

Speaker 2
2:53

I

think
,

just

as

patients

feel

isolated
,

the

support

people

also

feel

incredibly

isolated

because

society

does

a

really

good

job

in

sort

of

having

awareness

around

other

diseases

and

illnesses
.

Like

you

know
,

if

your

partner

has

cancer

it's

really

horrible
.

But

I

feel

like

then

the

community

like

for

example
,

recently

someone

in

my

neighborhood

was

diagnosed

with

like

a

terrible

cancer

and

the

neighborhood
,

everyone

came

together
,

everyone's

supporting

the

family
,

even

for

things

like

the

flu
.

Folks

in

the

community

know

to

drop

off

soup
,

they

know

to

leave

it

at

the

doorstep
,

like

can

I

go

food

shopping

for

you
?

But

a

lot

of

things

with

endometriosis

and

infertility

or

pregnancy

loss
,

folks

don't

know

what

endometriosis

is
.

A

lot

of

the

times

they

don't

know

how

to

help

and

often

the

person

not

only

the

patient

but

the

support

people

going

through

it

there

isn't

that

sort

of

rallying

that

like

automatically

happens
,

like

for

some

other

things
,

or

that

understanding

of

needs
.

So

it

absolutely

can

make

a

partner

feel

incredibly

isolated

and

I

think

anytime

they

can

reach

out
,

as

Sally

Sorrell

with

the

enemy

choices

summit

I

think

it's

still

on

their

YouTube

page

they

have

something

called

like

how

to

support

a

loved

one

and

we

interviewed

it

was

less

Henderson

and

their

partner
.

Speaker 2
4:17

It

was

like

a

mom

and

a

daughter

and

I

think

it

was

like

another

patient

and

her

husband
,

like

it

was

a

group

of

people

and

we

sort

of

interviewed

them

all

and

it's

a

great

resource

for

you

know
,

partners

or

loved

ones

out

there

to

sort

of

listen

so

that

they

don't

feel

alone

and

they

don't

feel

so

isolated
.

And

I

wish

you

know

a

lot

of

my

patients
.

I

was

like

what

if
,

like
,

your

family

had

gone

to

therapy

to

understand

this

better
,

to

be

able

to

support

you

better
,

like

how

much

better

would

you

feel
?

And

often

it's

a

lot

better
.

You

know
,

like

having

that

belief

and

that

support

and

that

foundation

can

really

be

life

changing

for

a

lot

of

patients

who

it's

just

like

another

obstacle

if

family

members

don't

know

how

to

be

present

or

be

supportive

if

family

members

don't

know

how

to

be

present

or

be

supportive
.

Speaker 1
5:07

From

one

amazing

advocate

to

another

in

episodes

79

and

80
,

I

had

the

privilege

of

sitting

down

with

Jen

Moore
,

a

tireless

advocate

from

the

UK
.

Jen

not

only

validated

much

of

what

Casey

shared
,

but

also

shed

light

on

the

additional

barriers

to

care

and

advocacy

across

the

pond
.

What

stood

out

most

in

our

conversation

was

the

shared

frustration

over

the

lack

of

curiosity

for

medical

providers
.

Much

like

Alison

Bontempo

alluded

to
,

jen

described

how

often

patients

are

dismissed

with

comments

like

your

scans

look

fine
.

As

though

that's

the

end

of

the

story
.

There

is

no

curiosity

in

healthcare
.

Speaker 3
5:37

From

my

personal

experience

and

the

experience

of

thousands

of

others

I've

spoken

to
,

there's

no
.

I

mean

I

know

there

are

individuals

who

are

like

this
,

but

as

a

whole

there

is

no
.

I

don't

know
,

but

let

me

find

out

for

you
.

Or

I'm

not

sure
,

but

I

know

a

great

person

who

will
.

So

let

me

put

you

in

touch
.

Or

even

let's

get

to

the

bottom

of

this
,

because

it

might

not

be

that

your

scan

might

be

clear
,

but

something's

clearly

going

wrong
.

So

let's

get

to

the

bottom

of

this
,

because

it

might

not

be

that

your

scan

might

be

clear
,

but

something's

clearly

going

wrong
.

So

let's

get

to

the

bottom

of

it
.

Speaker 3
6:04

And

that

seems

to

be

missing

from

pretty

much

all

of

the

healthcare

practitioners

that

I've

spoken

to

over

the

last

22

years
.

Yeah
,

and

I

don't

know

why
.

I

speak

to

the

clinical

school

at

Cambridge

University

a

lot
,

because

I'm

working

with

it

on

a

project

with

them

there

and

it's

something

they're

really

trying

to

instill
.

But

what

we're

kind

of

not

sure

is

what

happens

once

they

leave

university

and

then

there's

something

that

drops

off
,

and

whether

that's

stress

budget

resource
,

we

don't

know
.

But

there

definitely

needs

to

be

something

to

discover

that
,

because

it's

just

not

not

there
.

It's

almost

like

oh
,

your

scan's

clear
,

off

you

go
.

Or

that

blood

test

is

fine
,

you're

good

like

there's

no
.

So

why

are

you

in

that

much

pain
?

Why

are

you

losing

that

much

blood
?

Speaker 1
6:52

there's

just

no

questions

and

it's

yeah
,

it's

definitely

a

contributing

factor

to

the

delays

I

think

j

Jin

also

emphasized

how

this

lack

of

curiosity

stems

from

a

glaring

gap

in

education
.

If

some

of

the

world's

top

medical

schools

aren't

teaching

about

endometriosis
,

how

can

we

expect

providers

to

diagnose

or

treat

it

effectively
?

Speaker 3
7:12

This

was

both

sobering

and

infuriating

to

reflect

on
,

you

know

when

it

comes

to

our

bodies
,

women's

bodies
,

girls'

bodies
,

bodies

with

endometriosis
.

When

it

comes

to

our

bodies
,

women's

bodies
,

girls'

bodies
,

bodies

with

endometriosis
,

that

you

know

they're

not

designed

to

fit

into

the

system
.

That

just

sees

it

as

a

period

problem
,

which

we

know

categorically

isn't
.

But

that's

the

way

it's

seen

and

unfortunately

it's

not

even

really

taught

in

our

clinical

schools

for

future

doctors
.

That's

the

project

that

I'm

working

on

with

Cambridge

University

is

to

get

endometriosis

formally

onto

their

medical

school

curriculum
,

because

that's

meant

to

be

like

one

of

our

top

universities
,

one

of

the
,

you

know
,

leading

ones

in

the

world
,

and

it's

adjacent

to

one

of

our

leading

hospitals

in

the

UK

and

one

of

our

leading

biomedical

research

campuses

in

the

UK
,

and

yet

they

don't

teach

anything

about

endometriosis
,

and

it's

so
.

If

we

don't

even

have

our

doctors

knowing

what

it

is

and

how

to

treat

it
,

what

hope

do

we

have
?

Right
,

you

know
,

we're

kind

of

like

how
?

Speaker 1
8:11

do

you

even

begin
?

One

moment

from

my

conversation

with

Jen

that

I'll

never

forget

is

when

she

shared

a

story

about

spending

three

days

on

a

floor

and

we

all

know

how

challenging

that

is

Combing

through

medical

textbooks
,

only

to

find

information

on

endometriosis

severely

lacking
.

It's

a

scene

so

many

of

us

can

relate

to

the

desperate

search

for

answers

where

there

seems

to

be

none
.

Speaker 3
8:34

I

actually

went

and

sat

in

the

University

of

Cambridge

Medical

Library
.

I

went

and

sat

in

there

and

they

have

a

whole

gynecology

stack

and

I

sat

on

the

floor

in

between

these

two

stacks

and

I

looked

in

every

single

book
,

every

single

one
.

There

was

a

lot
.

It

took

me

like

three

days

and

I

can

count

on

one

hand

the

number

that

had

correct

definitions

of

endometriosis
.

Three

days

worth

of

books
,

one

hand
.

And

out

of

those
,

I

think

am

I

right

in

saying

only

one
?

I'm

pretty

sure

it's

only

one

Then

went

on

to

give

correct

treatment

options
.

So

even

the

other

ones

that

had

the

correct

definition
.

They

then

went

on

to

give

misinformation

about

how

to

treat

it
.

They

went

on

to

say

a

hysterectomy

is

a

cure
.

There

was

one

book

in

this

whole

entire

library

and

the

hysterectomy

doesn't

solve

like

thoracic

endometriosis
.

Speaker 3
9:30

It

doesn't

solve

diaphragmatic

or

any

it

doesn't

solve

it
,

or

bowel

or

bladder

or

any
,

I

mean
,

unless

you

have

it

on

your

uterus

somewhere

on

the

outside
,

it's

not

solving

it
.

Speaker 1
9:43

Jen's

experience
,

coupled

with

the

countless

stories

patients

have

shared

with

her

about

dismissive

or

downright

absurd

comments

from

providers
,

led

her

to

create

the

project
.

They

Said

what
?

And

I

have

to

kind

of

say

it

that

way

because

I

just

kind

of

feel

like

they

said

what

you

all

know
.

If

you've

ever

been

told

something

outrageous

by

a

medical

professional
,

you'll

feel

seen

in

this

very

clip

so

it's

called
.

Speaker 3
10:08

They

said

what's

project

and

that's

the

handle

on

instagram

and

tiktok

although

I

haven't

actually

done

anything

with

tiktok

yet

um
,

and

then

you

can

also

access

it

on

my

website
,

which

is

genmore

forward

slash

dot
.

Co

dot
.

Uk

forward

slash
.

They

said

what

project

and

it's

at

the

moment

we're

in

collation

stage
,

so

we

are

gathering

all

of

these

experiences

of

women's

health

dismissal
,

gaslighting
,

just

anything

across

all

of

women's

health
,

so

menopause
,

menstruation
,

anything
,

and

uh
,

yeah
.

So

then

when

we've

done

that
,

we

will

collate

it

all
,

make

it

into

a

report
.

Speaker 3
10:40

We're

also

working

with

psychologists

to

create

resources

for

people

that

are

going

through

medical

gaslighting

because
,

like

we

said

earlier
,

it's

just

trauma

upon

trauma

upon

trauma

upon

trauma

and

everybody

has

their

breaking

point
.

So

it

was

really

important

to

us

that

we

um
,

we

created

some

resources

as

well

for

people

that

are

going

through

this
,

and

then

we

will

also

create

recommendations

of

how

we

can

start

to

chip

away

at

that

in

the

future
.

But

yeah
,

the

name

actually

came

from

my

friend
,

because

when

I

Told

her
,

I

sent

her

a

voice

note

about

the

comment

I

told

you

a

minute

ago

about

the

environmental

impact

and

she

literally

sent

one

back

to

me

being

like

hey
,

sen

what
.

And

then

she

was

so

angry

about

it

and

I

was

like

that's

a

really

cool

name

and

so

yeah
,

she's

a

graphic

designer
,

so

she

designed

it

all

for

me

and

stuff
.

So

yeah
,

it

came

from

my

friend's

outrage
.

Speaker 1
11:28

What

struck

me

most

about

both

Casey

and

Jen

is

their

passion

and

drive

to

change

the

narrative

around

endometriosis
.

Their

stories

are

relatable
,

their

advocacy

is

inspiring

and

their

determination

is

contagious
.

If

you

haven't

already
,

I

encourage

you

to

listen

to

these

episodes

episodes

78

with

Casey

and

episodes

79

and

80

with

Jen

on

your

favorite

streaming

platforms
,

and

don't

forget

to

subscribe

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you

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year

reflection

episode

arrives
.

Thank

you

for

taking

the

time

to

sit

at

the

table

with

me

today
.

I'm

convinced

that

advocates

like

Casey

and

Jen

are

the

momentum

for

change

in

the

fight

against

standard

endometriosis

care

and

other

chronic

illnesses
.

Their

work

and

their

courage

remind

me

why

this

fight

is

so

worth

it
.

We

deserve

better

care
,

we

deserve

better

answers
,

and

together

we

can

push

for

that

change
.

Until

next

time
,

continue

advocating

for

you

and

for

those

that

you

love
.

Thank

you
.

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